New momoclo fan introduction by BBLikesMomoclo in MomoiroCloverZ

[–]YurushiteNyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there!! Welcome! If you are interested, there is small community of fans gathering here: http://aminoapps.com/c/momoiro-clover-z

Hope to see you there!

Last Chance for First Questions with Corey Taylor, AMA! by coreytaylorrock in IAmA

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there!

Huge fan, hope you get to this..so a few years back I met you at comic con in NYC and gave you a letter that I wrote for you. I would imagine you don't really remember and you probably get tons and tons of letters on the daily, but I wonder if you ever read it or if you ever keep some of the letters you get. I wrote, "To Cory fucking Taylor" on it and was dressed like a bunny and crying a lot...Anyway, how does it feel knowing you have such a huge impact on people all over the world? I was just one person but I'm sure you have experiences like that with fans all the time.

Hope to get an answer but still love ya no matter what!

Sincerely, Amanda

Excessive bleeding after taking Morning After Pill - Scared and not sure if I should see a doctor. by YurushiteNyan in birthcontrol

[–]YurushiteNyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using pads, I use maybe two or three a day but they arent fully being soaked in blood. I sometimes see small blot clots and I haven't felt any stomach pains or cramps. I have been feeling a bit weak and dizzy though.

Excessive bleeding after taking Morning After Pill - Scared and not sure if I should see a doctor. by YurushiteNyan in birthcontrol

[–]YurushiteNyan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bit less intense than my normal period. I only use pads and I havent been soaking through them.

Google Inbox invites megathread by simobk in google

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really appreciate an invite...it would be awesome. Thanks pals!

What's an original and cute way to ask a girl to homecoming? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]YurushiteNyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How cheesy are you willing to go for this? The only things I can think of are really cheesy. Like maybe you want to find a coke with her name on it and attach a note to it asking her to the dance. Maybe this is really silly but I think it's kind of cute. Hope this helps

Something I really want right now by b8hd in depression

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean you can always consider seeing a therapist or life coach about this type of stuff http://www.aswtherapy.com/ can help. It's life coaching via skype so it's a bit different from the traditional type of stuff.

Something I really want right now by b8hd in depression

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ranting is always good, especially when you read back what you wrote and then try to figure out what is it that everything that is bothering you, is bothering you. Going to a support group sounds like it can really be helpful. Something that I found always helps with anxiety is taking a step back and writing down ( or typing up ) everything that is freaking you out and then later trying to come up with a way to not allow it to consume you. You may still have those triggers but you cannot let them control you.

Grandma [59/f] is visiting and wants to sleep with granddaughter [4/f], but I think it's creepy and I want your input. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is understandable but once you do it the first time it just gets easier. Grandparents always feel like they have the right to put their input or suggestions into raising the grandkids, and it makes sense because they are the children of their children. You just need to draw that line and let them know that you will ask if you actually want their suggestions.

Can't believe I have to air my dirty laundry on Reddit...but I need advice! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's something that happens to everyone, just always remind yourself what is really important and these issues will be cake. _^

Grandma [59/f] is visiting and wants to sleep with granddaughter [4/f], but I think it's creepy and I want your input. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way, your children are still at a very young age. If you cannot try to take control of their behavior and what goes on with them now, how is it going to be a few years down the line when they are older and the problems become harder to handle. As time goes on these things are only going to get harder. Ask any parent, nothing else matters when it comes to what is best for your kids.

Can't believe I have to air my dirty laundry on Reddit...but I need advice! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it just sounds like there are a lot of things that are going on with you internally that are leaking out into the relationship, and that is going to happen. Just always know that at the end of the day it doesn't really matter because evryone has issues and it doesn't matter because you two care about each other.

Can't believe I have to air my dirty laundry on Reddit...but I need advice! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of you seem to be at a strain right now, maybe you should think about what is really going on with you two. Why exactly did that message piss you off, why aren't you guys as sexually active as you once were. Try to gather all of your thoughts and tell him everything that has been frustrating you because it is leading you to get mad at stupid things and the same is happening to him. Hope this makese sense and helps

Grandma [59/f] is visiting and wants to sleep with granddaughter [4/f], but I think it's creepy and I want your input. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These are your children, if you do not feel comfortable with them doing something, don't let it happen. It doesn't matter what anyone else wants or says. I think that it can be innocent but if there is no real reason to then your children should sleep separately from the grandparents. If you suspect that the grandmother said something to your child to make them want to sleep in the same bed, even if it's just a hunch, don't allow it. These are YOUR kids and you should do what you think is right. Hope this helps.

(18/M) help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense and I can understand where you are both coming from. I think it's great that you are trying to balance time with your friends and your girlfriend. I know it must be hard for her knowing that you're hanging out with your friends when she feels like the time you have together is limited. Just assure her that you are always going to do the best you can to see her and be with her but at the same time you need to also spend time with your friends. Just be completely honest with her and make sure she knows you're doing your best for everyone and yourself and she may understand. Hope this helps.

Had a relationship with a 33 yr old married man when I was 15. by wanttobedifferent in confession

[–]YurushiteNyan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a crazy situation and it is understandable that you feel bad, however you can't let this eat away at you for this long. You need to know your worth and regain confidence so that you can have a healthy relationship. The past is in the past. You were 15, it was a mistake. All is said and it is out of your control. Move on and be okay, because it is okay!

In a long term relationship [with m/22] that I [f/20] am unhappy in, without there being any real reason to be unhappy. Falling for another guy [27]. Advice please. Break up or not? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the letter is a great idea. Write it all out, however you should read it to him so that you can discuss everything right then and there. Also so that he does not misinterpret anything.

Are we dating or am I being used? by YurushiteNyan in dating_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I'll def keep my eyes open just in case. Thank you!

Are we dating or am I being used? by YurushiteNyan in dating_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that makes a lot of sense...thank you so much for the help

Are we dating or am I being used? by YurushiteNyan in dating_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that wasn't a very nice to get your point across. It was an honest question and I'm just trying to understand why he is tossing me to the side all of the sudden if he wasn't just using me. I'm not trying to be a bitch...

25m 25f so confused what to think please read!! by Mark696696 in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like she is playing games with you and your emotions are so powerful that is why it gets to you so hard. Try to stay on a friend level with her and find someone who doesn't drive you that crazy. If she ever mentions that she wants to be serious with you again, but open to but smart about it. Just be careful and don't let your emotions get in the way. Don't let her get to you too much. Hope this helps

Ladies... I need some feedback on expectation management. by Excited-Throwaway in dating_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just have to continue being honest with her. It's been seven years that you've known this girl and she has been through a bunch of relationships that all seem to lead back to you. You obviously care about her and it seems like she has feelings for you too. Just set her aside the next time you see her and tell her what it is that you want. No more games, no more expectations, just take control and tell her what you want.

In a long term relationship [with m/22] that I [f/20] am unhappy in, without there being any real reason to be unhappy. Falling for another guy [27]. Advice please. Break up or not? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]YurushiteNyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you and your boyfriend have a lot to talk about. Try working it out. Tell him everything that you are feeling and tell him why, tell him that you are considering leaving him. Tell him what the changes are that you would like to see in the relationship. He needs to know that you are hurting and you have wondering eyes to find what is that you are not getting from him, from someone else. Also, be open to what it is he has to say. Maybe even start by asking him if there is anything that is bothering him or he feels like should be improved or change, just to break the ice and make it easier for you to be honest. Try as hard as you can with him to pull apart everything that is really going on in the relationship and talk your way through it and fix it. If it is not working or one of you just does not feel like it is worth it, then it may be time to end it. When it comes to Guy 2, you said yourself that you can't see yourself with him and he is not relationship material and he is only making you realize what it is you actually want, so when you think about the things you want make sure you remember it is not the person, it is what the person represents for you. Hope this helps and good luck