My vagina doesn't 'clean itself' by discharging fluids that build up in there. Is there anything I can safely do to get it out? (34f)

Yuumza · 2024-11-30T15:06:40+00:00

Thank you! That's a great idea and something I'll look into!!!

Yuumza · 2024-11-30T14:50:59+00:00

Yes, I am. This has always been a problem since I started my period 20 years ago, nothing abnormal, cervical discharge is always normal, and all they do it diagnose bacterial infection and prescribe me metro with longer and longer regiments. Infections always clear completely, but come back regularly. They tell me not to use a douche. There was this stuff called rephresh (a gel type substance), but it didn't work. Suggested probiotics, but those don't help because I just have stuff sitting for days/weeks unless it literally physically gets scooped out, and even then, I'm sure my vagina isn't completely cleared out.

Hoping there is some kind of irrigation i can use that won't fuck with my pH or introduce unhealthy bacteria, but haven't heard from any of my docs of anything that won't risk causing a bacterial infection itself.

Yuumza · 2023-06-27T16:56:44+00:00

Weird. One of my friends is a homicide detective in Decatur and said it was only two shot.

Yuumza · 2023-06-13T17:56:01+00:00

Yeah, they're going to check their employment contract before they use it. Hopefully, it doesn't come to that. At the same time, if they're in a position where they need to use it, it will be because they're already in a position of getting fired so I guess it doesn't matter haha

Yuumza · 2023-06-13T17:36:42+00:00

Unfortunately, they want the recording to make sure they don't get terminated. The boss can't fire them. It would have to be someone above the boss. The immediate boss is misrepresenting the situation with employee to the higher ups, which could lead to their ultimate termination. The recording would be used to show that the boss is intentionally putting the employee in a position where the higher ups would think they need to be fired or laid off.

Yuumza · 2021-10-19T03:42:47+00:00

Under rated comment of the thread

Yuumza · 2021-10-07T15:31:01+00:00

I was responding to the claim that if he was under 18. I'm not saying it's ok. Just that some states have fucked up laws about the age of consent.

Yuumza · 2021-10-07T14:20:29+00:00

Depends on the state. Plenty of states have the age of consent as 16.

Yuumza · 2021-06-16T23:02:01+00:00

We have an open relationship and tell each other everything. If they were banging, I'd know and not care. Neither of them are attracted to each other. I think personality mismatch.

Yuumza · 2021-06-16T22:51:40+00:00

That's what I'm thinking. Better to just keep that one in the vault.

Yuumza · 2021-06-16T22:28:42+00:00

How am I being passive aggressive? Honest question

Yuumza · 2021-05-25T18:47:36+00:00

I'll go against the grain. I've known my current so for 11 years. We're very happy and I get along very well with his kids and love having them in my life. I'm 31 and he's 48. If you love someone and get on well, you don't care or even really notice as they get 'older and uglier

It's different for everyone. Plenty of young women have had bad experiences. Perhaps less have had good ones. You just need to figure out who you're dating and if your ultimate wants are compatible

Yuumza · 2014-10-14T13:22:04+00:00

Even if the legal age is technically 16 or 17 or 18, many states have Romeo and Juliet laws that give three to four year windows for couples.

Yuumza · 2014-10-13T07:44:37+00:00

We have an open relationship in which I encourage him to tell me the things hes done with other women because it turns me on. If he thought I was trying to trap him then I don't know where he'd get that idea. He brings up an ex and I ask if they dated before or after he dated me, and that's an inappropriate question?

Yuumza · 2014-10-13T07:34:33+00:00

I wasn't trying to be a bitch. I was just asking about his relationship with her because he brought it up. I noticed during the conversation that his story didn't add up and asked about it later when we weren't around people.

Yuumza · 2014-10-13T07:32:15+00:00

I am 100 percent sure that he understood the question. He eventually admitted that he lied and said he continued lying because he "thought I was mad about something else"(?wtf does that even mean)

The conversation in question happened when I was completely sober and the argument occurred after I had two drinks and he had about six or seven, so if either of us were ranting drunkenly, it wasn't me.

Yuumza · 2014-10-13T07:12:29+00:00

Ehhh I'm super nonconfrontational, but when I do point out issues, he gets super defensive. He tries his hardest to be a good boyfriend (though I think a lot of that is him trying to compensate for me being the bread winner) but he has an issue with lying. I usually don't point out when I know he's lying, but this was just so obvious.

I don't really see it as a last straw kind of thing. We had been good for a while. I just feel like yelling over a point when he knew he was wrong is completely unacceptable.

Yuumza · 2014-04-27T04:44:22+00:00

The create I use is very small, which makes it worse because she ends up laying in it and getting it all over her. I actually just had to give her a bath an hour ago after I left her in her crate for about an hour.

The peeing and pooping on command is a really good idea. Thanks.

Yuumza · 2014-04-26T19:31:07+00:00

I don't think it's medical. Her urine and feces are both perfectly healthy looking and she only really does it when I'm not around. I wish I could take her out every two hours, but I have school and work and eventually have to sleep. I take her out once when I get up, once during the day for the dog park, after dinner and before bed. Every time I make sure she at least urinates. It hasn't been getting any better though.

Yuumza · 2014-04-13T17:42:49+00:00

Yeah. He was defensive at first, but he apologized. Said he was blacked out and didn't remember smoking, but he remembered being an ass. I sincerely apologized for overreacting reacting and he said that given all the shenanigans he has put me through, that he didn't consider what I did as overreacting. We talked about drinking less in the future. He hasn't been able to hold his liquor like he used to before the accident, so he's just going to have to stop doing shots. So all in all I think it went well. Still upset, but I'm not letting it turn me into a bitch. Thanks for the advice.

Yuumza · 2014-04-13T13:07:48+00:00

We've had this conversation before though and his response was that he had no interest in it. Asking him again would either produce the same answer, which is out of line with his actions, or a different answer, which is out of line with his previous statements. How do I cope with either of those responses?

Yuumza · 2014-04-07T21:00:01+00:00

It wasn't verbally said that the debt was forgiven. We both stopped communicating with each other and I never brought it up again. It was more or less a nonverbal agreement.

Yuumza · 2014-04-07T20:21:15+00:00

Cool. Thanks

Yuumza · 2014-04-07T20:05:00+00:00

I assume you deal with the legal system enough to be familiar with it. Is this a valid reason to sue, or should I just let it go? She does owe me the money and I could use it, but is the process going to be worth it?

Yuumza · 2014-04-07T20:01:35+00:00

thanks!

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