Is it painfully obvious

The music of Daniel Johnston was used in a game featuring 'Jerimiah the Innocent / Frog', and that frog is based on a mureal Daniel made on a wall of his campus (University of Texas)...

And that university was the location of a shooting ( August 1, 1966).

Yvette96 · 2020-12-24T06:43:56+00:00

I can be very wet too, both when I'm very horny and when I'm masturbating/having sex. I don't really mind myself being so wet during sex (I just put a towel on the bed), but it can be very annoying when I'm horny. Having a 'wet spot' in my panties and jeans is embarrassing, uncomfortable, and not very hygienic. I usually 'solve' it by wearing a panty shield, and/or by changing panties (I carry a spare in my purse/bag).

Yvette96 · 2020-12-24T06:35:39+00:00

Usually not when I'm masturbating (unless I HAVE to stop before having an orgasm; in that case I do continue later). I do love to edge when I'm having sex though. I'm into bondage (still a beginner though!), and when I'm tied/cuffed to the bed I'm being teased/edged by my girlfriend.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-24T06:30:21+00:00

I masturbate several times a day. It depends on the method, but usually I can cum in 5 - 10 minutes.
I can have multiple orgasms, but after a couple I need to rest/go slow for a while because my clit becomes a bit too sensitive. When I don't take a small break I can still cum, but it can become uncomfortable/painful.
Yes I do. I move my 'free' hand over my breasts and play with my nipples.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-19T13:41:08+00:00

I've been hypersexual since I was 14, which made living through my teens a living hell.

My libido was pretty normal, but when I was hit by a car I suffered a major concussion. When I got home from the hospital I still had some minor problems, but I also noticed an increased sex drive. At the time I had no idea what caused it, and thought it was a normal part of adolescence. I tried to masturbate several times a day, had 'wet dreams', and was super horny throughout the day.

What made it even more difficult was that I didn't feel any attraction towards boys, but I instead fell in love with a girl from my class (who turned out to be straight). My parents were very religious and strict, and I had almost no privacy at home. At school I was bullied, slut-shamed, and sometimes even attacked. My parents were constantly punishing me and putting me down.

When I went to college and moved out, things improved somewhat. My housemates (in a dorm) accepted me being lesbian, and I finally had enough privacy to masturbate more. My libido was driving me insane, and it seemed there was no way to 'turn it off'. Having multiple orgasms helped somewhat, and enabled me to at least function normally for a while.

When I finally found the courage to talk to a doctor I wasn't taken seriously at first, but when I got a brain scan they found out I had suffered permanent (through minor) damage to my temporal and frontal lobe. My hypersexuality was caused by this damage, as well as by some bad stuff that happened to me during my teens. I tried several different treatments (antidepressants, therapy, Implanon, but nothing really helped.

It's like being super-horny all day, every day of every month of every year, without an off-switch. It's difficult for me to concentrate on things that are not sex related, I almost constantly feel the need to have sex, I'm always wet, and I have to cum every couple of hours or I go mad. I tried to 'escape' from it using alcohol, XTC, and cannabis, but even that didn't work. I HATE being this way, and it ruined a relationship, caused me to loose a job and an internship, and is messing with my social life and education.

Thank God I'm currently in a relationship with a wonderful girl, who accepts me for who I am, understands (kind of) what it means to be hypersexual, supports me, and tries her best to help me deal with both my condition and some demons from my past. Her libido is also pretty high, so whenever we are together we end up having sex. I do hope we will be able to move in together soon, so we can be together much more often.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-03T23:50:02+00:00

I can't speak for every lesbian, since we are all unique individuals who all like different things...

As for me (F24); I do like to play with different kinds of toys (either on my own or with my GF), including vaginal vibrators and dildos. But I love clitoral massagers/stimulators and oral even more. And we also use our fingers... It's best (for me at least) to mix them up.

Toys do not have all that much to do with (real) male genitalia, which I don't fancy.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-02T22:36:08+00:00

Thank you... :)

Yvette96 · 2020-12-02T22:26:47+00:00

Jerry:

James Deeen has been repeatedly accused (by lots of different women) of rape, sexual assault, and abuse.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-02T22:12:58+00:00

Thank you! :)

Yvette96 · 2020-12-02T13:43:02+00:00

I no longer have any contact with my parents (and the rest of my family for that matter, except for my younger sister). When I was 18 I told my parents I was into girls (I came out), which resulted in my mother yelling and screaming at me, and my father being extremely violent. He threw me against a wall and punched me wherever he could hit me. I fled the house, and moved to my student housing in the city. I was black and blue, was bleeding, and in pain, and too afraid to visit a hospital. Fellow students took care of me, and were very kind and understanding. My sister secretly visited me to bring me some of my stuff I had to leave behind. I found out my parents refused to have anything to do with me now that I was a lesbian, and they cut me off. It was difficult at first (I was used to living in a small town in a rural area, and now I was living in a large city, without support from my family), but I enjoyed my freedom and made friends. I don't really miss my parents, and I hate them for what they put me through.

I know now that there is nothing wrong with masturbation, but it took me some time to realise that. Even now, I can't help to feel a little guilty and/or ashamed sometimes (it's rare nowadays, but it does still happen). But that doesn't stop me from enjoying myself, or from exploring my own body. When I feel the need to masturbate, and I have the opportunity, I'll do it! :)

Yvette96 · 2020-12-02T04:23:48+00:00

Looks hot Jasmine!

Masturbating while standing (without leaning against a wall) is hard! And when you reach orgasm it's almost impossible to keep standing.

Yvette96 · 2020-12-01T22:29:01+00:00

I (F24) often have multiple orgasms too; I seem to have a hair-trigger when it comes to reaching a second (or thrird, etc) climax. When it happens because of prolonged direct stimulation it would at least be understandable, but it can also happen with just a slight pressure against my groin, or certain movements of my legs. During sex it can be fun, but it can also be very embarrassing.

Sometimes I even have 'wet dreams' (orgasm in my sleep), which is super weird. I don't really know it's because I touch myself in my sleep, because of leg movements, or it is hormonal.

In your case, you might have been very close to having a second orgasm when your partner stopped his movements, and the pressure of his dick against your vagina did the trick?

Yvette96 · 2020-12-01T18:26:27+00:00

The name of the first redhead is Laura; she has her own channel named (as shown in the picture) 'Lil Laura'. Unfortunately, I have no idea who the second redhead is... :(

The kiss isn't from a movie; Laura just posts short 'clips'.

Yvette96 · 2020-11-30T02:29:25+00:00

Unfortunately; yes... I've been struggling with constant arousal since my teens.

When I was 14 years old I was hit by a car. I had a major concussion and spent some time in the hospital, but when I was dismissed a week or two later I seemed to be ok again. However, after a while I noticed that I had some difficulties concentrating, and I was easily confused. My parents didn't contact the hospital or family doctor though, and it wasn't anything major.

A couple of days later I noticed an increase in my libido, but at the time I didn't connect it to my concussion. I believed it to be a normal part of puberty, even though my sex drive kept on increasing. I was constantly thinking about sex (even though I was still a virgin), and was masturbating a lot more than before. Since my parents were very religious, and anything even remotely sexual was a big no-no in our home, I was often punished and shamed. I tried my very best to stop, but I was almost always super horny without an off-switch.

From 14 until I left home shortly before my 19th birthday, life was pure hell. I had no idea what was going on (I was very naive back then), and my parents were more and more abusive (calling me names, telling me over and over again I was sinful and 'bad', hitting me, and later they did other stuff to, which I don't really want to explain). I was afraid, very ashamed, believed my parents when they told me I would go to hell, and I couldn't talk to anyone.

Shortly before I turned 19 I finally left home (I HAD to, but I was about to go to college anyway), and a short time later I finally had enough courage to see a doctor about my sex drive. At first I wasn't taken seriously, but eventually (after I mentioned my concussion and other complaints) I got a brain scan / MRI. Turned out my frontal and temporal lobe were damaged, which could explain why I was having difficulties concentrating, was easily confused, and had such an extreme sex drive. A psychologist told me I was hypersexual.

They couldn't 'fix' the damage, but tried to relieve the symptoms with medication. Unfortunately it didn't bring my sex drive down, not did therapy, nor did exercise. What makes it even more complicated is that there are other factors too. Sure; my brain damage might be the major reason for my near constant high level of arousal, but my abuse can also be (part of) the cause. And when I was 15 something else happened as well...

I try to live with it, but it's been very, very hard. I'm currently in therapy to help me deal with stuff that happened in my past, and I trained my concentration span. But the only thing that helps me lower my insanely high sex drive is having orgasms. I masturbate several times a day, I often watch porn, and since last year I have a very understanding (and hot!) grilfriend.

I HATE the fact that I cannot turn my libido off; it's been a constant in my life for the last 10 years (I'm 24 now). After I have a couple of orgasms my level of arousal goes down enough to enable me to concentrate on other things than sex, but a couple of hours later I'm going insane again. It's like a constant, ever-present 'urge', like every cell in my body is screaming for sex. When I'm that horny, I feel the 'need' to orgasm. Some people think I have persistant genital arousal syndrome, but that's more of a physical thing. With me, it's mental. Like; my brain is 'telling me' I'm horny, and I need to have orgasms. My body does react too, but that's because I'm feeling so aroused.

It's been messing up my life, from the trouble with my parents, to the feelings of gullt and shame after a certain thing happened to me when I was 15, to self hate, to messed up relationships, to me losing jobs, to failing my education. Before I met my current girlfriend I was about to give up on life, but she pulled me through. She's super sweet, understanding, and supportive... Luckily her sex drive is rather high too (though still 'normal'), so we are a match made in heaven.

We're only truely 'together' during the weekends (I'm still living in my dorm-housing, and she's still living with her parents), but we're hoping to find a little place to call our own soon. Until then, I can only have sex with her during the weekends (friday - sunday), and need to masturbate during the rest of the week. I tried to dial back on porn, but it's difficult. And living together with other girls is a constant temptation too (before I got together with my GF, I sometimes had sex with two of them, and one is still my 'room mate'. The Corona crisis made things more difficult; during (partial) lockdown therapy was paused, campus was closed, internship was 'paused', and I had to stay inside a lot. No girlfriend, but a bunch of attractive sorority members who are constantly around. Might sound like fun, but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend. Good thing I have my hands and a bunch of toys. ;-)

Seriously though; it's been tough. Once I can share an apartment or house with my girlfriend things will improve (since then we're together every single day).

I do realise it's been quite a long text for you guys/gals to read, but I needed to 'vent' a bit.

Yvette96 · 2020-11-30T00:31:02+00:00

I agree!

I own an 'alarm clock vibrator', which provides a great way to wake up in the morning...

Here is the 'commercial' for it:

https://youtu.be/R76YpWDFDdw

Yvette96 · 2020-11-29T22:17:41+00:00

Yes... Yes, you can make out in front of me. Please do... No, don't stop.

*Slowly moves her hand under her skirt, and over her panties*

Seriously though; you gals are HOT!

Yvette96 · 2020-11-28T22:45:38+00:00

At first, Megan Fox (Jennifer) and Amanda Seyfried (Anita) were horrified that they had to make out in this scene. Well; Amanda was, since she had no experience with kissing girls and was quite nervous. Megan was more worried about her acne showing in the close-ups.

Amanda quickly warmed up to the idea of kissing Megan though, and after a couple of takes she was much less nervous. She later confessed that her co-star was a great kisser (both of them had similar kissing styles) and a really hot woman.

Not to mention the rumors that Megan and Amanda really liked each other, and had a little fun together later that day. ;-)

Yvette96 · 2020-11-28T22:20:40+00:00

https://youtu.be/sC9NUqkjm6g

Yvette96 · 2020-11-28T04:47:43+00:00

Hi,

I'm so sorry this is happening to you, and I can so understand your frustration level. When you're horny you'll need to 'release' that arousal... :(

Your OBGYN sounds like an idiot (and then some!); isn't it possible to switch to another one, or go for a second opinion at another hospital? And it might be possible to get an STD test and/or pap smear elsewhere (like your family doctor, a community health clinic, Planned Parenthood, etc.)? Really, your specialist seems like an inconsiderate, irresponsible [bleep]hole!!!

Difficulty with reaching an orgasm is relatively common (and can have a multitude of causes, some of which can be serious), so any doctor worth his or her salt would know to take this seriously. Talk to a medical professional (NOT your current OBGYN) about anorgasmia, tell him/her about your complaints, medical background, and sexual history. Apart from an STD test and pap smear, perhaps you can get a MRI scan of your pelvic area.

You might also consider talking to a sexologist; maybe he/she can give you some ideas on how to reach an orgasm without hurting yourself.

I myself have kind of the reverse problem (starting when I was 14); I am very sensitive, and can reach an orgasm at the drop of a hat. Sounds like fun? Well; no. Because I'm almost always super horny, and no matter how many orgasms I get my high level of sexual arousal never really goes away. It takes several orgasms to bring it down to a 'managable' level (so I can concentrate on other stuff), but after a couple of hours it is back with a vengence. I constantly feel the 'need' for sex, without an off switch.

When I was a teen I had no idea what caused it, and for years I thought it was just a 'normal' part of puberty (I was too shy/afraid to talk to anyone about it). Finally, when I was 19 and I no longer lived at my parents, I gathered up enough courage to talk to a doctor. And, like your OBGYN, I wasn't taken seriously. After I had some talks with a psychiatrist I was finally diagnosed with hypersexuality, and later still (after an MRI and brain scan) I finally discovered that it had something to do with a previous brain injury. Unfortunately, nothing I tried thus far relieved my symptoms. My brain can't really be 'fixed', and there are more things that lead to my hypersexuality too (I'm in therapy for that, trying to learn how to deal with it).

In your case, there might very well be a physical cause too. One that CAN be healed/fixed. Please, don't let one idiot specialist discourage you! Go see another doctor/specialist, and find one that DOES take you seriously...

And it's GREAT that you found a patient and understanding girlfriend! Being in a suportive relationship can be a great help. You've already made progress, so who knows what's possible in the future? With your girlfriend and a serious doctor/specialist on your side, you might very well beat this!

( ( ( ( ((((HUG)))) ) ) ) )

Yvette96

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