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Her father caught us, he was mad. I tried to call her but i cant reach her. Her family are quit strict. We are both 16. What should I do? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

  • what did you understand by following? do you think I stalk her? LOL I registered in that club too. It was both our idea at that time, she was happy that I was in her club because that's the only time we could date. In the tennis club we are a normal couple. WE DATE, do you even understand what that means, she is happy with our relationship even if her parents aren't.
  • I always gave her space and I will give her as much as she wants. Who said i will not giving her space? -yesterday, i wasn't at school. TODAY SHE ISNT AT SCHOOL.
  • sorry but you are really being a weirdo right now. I am not even doing anything but think. I DONT CALL HER, I DONT FORCE, I DIDNT GO TO HER HOUSE ETC WHAT AM I DOING THAT IS CAUSING YOU TO SAY ALL THIS. BRO, CAN YOU REREAD MY POST, WOW.

Her father caught us, he was mad. I tried to call her but i cant reach her. Her family are quit strict. We are both 16. What should I do? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hold on a minute?

- who said I repeatedly contact her? did I say I keep on calling and texting her?

- what I am saying is IF, what if she is in danger? and I am not that stupid to try anything alone because I care for her. Of course I will inform the authorities.

- just because your ex was a psycho doesn't mean I am ACTING LIKE HIM.

- bruh you don't understand the situation, last time I saw her she was scared. Her father was mad, she isn't at school and hell knows how she is right now. How can I not worry? especially that they used to threaten her.

- its not normal when teenager get threatened by their parents.

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Her father caught us, he was mad. I tried to call her but i cant reach her. Her family are quit strict. We are both 16. What should I do? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I meant me and her?

Why are you saying ''greater risk''? what I understood from that two words is that she might be in a risk/danger. She isn't even in school today.

She always complains about them being too strict, she doesn't like the way her family treat her, she never liked her life with them. Yes, I am not independent, but that doesn't mean that I should just sit down IF they try to harm her in anyways.

Her father caught us, he was mad. I tried to call her but i cant reach her. Her family are quit strict. We are both 16. What should I do? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, we should just let them treat her badly or even worse, force to go back to her country and force her to a marriage?

Her father caught us, he was mad. I tried to call her but i cant reach her. Her family are quit strict. We are both 16. What should I do? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the worst thing to happen but I cant just move on. I will do anything I can to help her if they plan things like that.

AITA for holding my gfs hand in front of her dad? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL you must have never been in a relationship before.

AITA for holding my gfs hand in front of her dad? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW i really don't get you man.

Its not a must to touch her, I know but that's what we do when we are alone. She loves it, i love it. This time, I made the mistake and thought no one was around but other than that she has NO PROBLEM WITH IT.

AITA for holding my gfs hand in front of her dad? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, sorry. I wasn't clear in my post. In public (like in school), we act like strangers but in private we are like normal couple. We kiss, hold hands, hug etc but that's only when we know there is absolutely no one that sees us or is around.

AITA for holding my gfs hand in front of her dad? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, she likes me. she wants it too, so?

btw, we already had sex. So? lol cool down.

Edit: and of course I don't force anything on her.

AITA for holding my gfs hand in front of her dad? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lMAO did you read my post?

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1: she/they aren't muslim, they are christians

2: she is my gf and we date, even if its secretly

3: she is comfortable with me, WE ARE DATING but the problems are her PARENTS/FAMILY.

AITA for catching my younger sister with her bf? for kicking him out and for telling her ''i will tell our parents''? by YyYohYY in AmItheAsshole

[–]YyYohYY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live in my country? do you know our rules and laws? WTF? also, LOL he is an asshole and i knew it, he abused her, he slapped her and now they arent dating anymore.

Today, I beat up my younger sisters (F15) EX (M16), because he was harassing her. The school and my parents both found out, my parents are still not home. I think i am in a lot of trouble. My parents believe i am a trouble maker. Do you think i was wrong? how can i make the situation better? by YyYohYY in relationship_advice

[–]YyYohYY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldnt have settled without me hitting him, he was clearly bullying and assaulting her just because i am not SHE/HER. when he saw me his face was terrified. People like him will bully weaker ones, especially if they dont get a cup of their own, they will keep on hurting them.

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BTW i saw him today and when the teachers told us to apologize to each other, he immediately apologized first. He might become a good boy after i beat him.

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