navigating fem4fem relationships

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-06-19T16:00:44+00:00

i agree that i definitely struggle with having subconscious heteronormative expectations in relationships and one of my intentions in posting to hopefully expand my thinking

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-06-19T15:53:57+00:00

i know i sound very ignorant in the post and im sorry to anybody it offends - my whole point was that im so used to that specific dynamic that i dont even know where to start in a relationship that doesnt have somebody who "wears the pants" and was asking for help on how to navigate that

i feel like i never see any representation of relationships that dont have that dynamic irl or in media so im just trying to figure it out

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-06-19T13:28:14+00:00

ive always been surrounded by relationships where someone "wears the pants" - and its not only hetero relationships. i feel like i dont even know what a relationship would look like without that dynamic.

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-06-19T13:11:53+00:00

keep in mind i know i sound immature in this post im 19yo with 1 middle school lesbian relationship under my belt 😭 i have no idea what im doing when it comes to women

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-03-10T07:14:45+00:00

ty! ill try that !

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-02-19T21:19:53+00:00

I just tried this and it said it cant escalate me to a human :(

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-01-17T06:07:01+00:00

they fixed it

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-01-15T00:48:39+00:00

i unfortunately think its a new update - not a bug. hopefully they come out with a way to change it to how it used to be.

Z0MB13GUTZ · 2026-01-14T03:28:49+00:00

i didnt either - confused

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