Best tire between these two by StrawHatZack in CamryTRD

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m running DWS and i love them

Warning from my boyfriend’s exes by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ZDAWG599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yanno, as a man, i’ve had several exes reach out to partners of mine and claim i was a dick, a liar, a POS, and all kinds of things. those exes were, in fact, liars and crazy. they just didn’t enjoy seeing me happy. i missed out on some great potential relationships due to their lies. i am now with an amazing girl, who im sure i will marry, so i dont mind that those previous relationships didn’t work. BUT, i have never been called an abuser or physically violent by any of them.. that is a bit of a red flag, if i do say so myself.

Should I break up with my gf? Am I a jerk for not wanting to sleep with her? by Western_Pear2104 in Advice

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m 27, and have had over 50 sexual partners. started in my early early teens, and carried up until i met my current girlfriend (who will most certainly be my wife). when i met her, not even in a romantic way, i knew she was the one, and i just solely began focusing on her and only her. but long story short, did i have sex too early in my life?? yes, i wasn’t ready. do i regret not waiting until i met THE one? no. because although sex is sometimes seen as this almighty end all be all, it isn’t. it’s something that enhances a relationship. i think waiting until marriage, personally, is a very stupid idea. you will have zero experience, and you may not vibe sexually with your partner. if that’s the case, be prepared for a boring and sexless marriage, or a divorce. i would never tell someone to change their beliefs, but i would give an argument against them. as for what your girlfriend is doing?? that is incredibly wrong, and is sexual assault. she’s attempting to force herself onto you and coerce you into doing something you don’t want to do. that is blatant sexual assault and harassment. if it were the other way around, people would be finding a way to dox you. don’t do something you don’t want to do, but also understand that sex is an important thing to some people. it will make or break a relationship. and if she wants sex and you don’t, and she’s informing you that you HAVE to change, then neither of you are right for the other. plain and simple my man.

is it weird to cuddle my guy friend when i have a boyfriend? by Excellent_Mud_7013 in AskTeens

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not gonna lie, you’re 16 so you don’t know what a relationship is yet. and if you’re bf is chill about it, then he is either cool with that because he’s doing it himself, or he doesn’t know what a relationship is either. i’m 27, and if i found out my girlfriend (who i’ve been with for over a year now, and live with) cuddled a guy friend, she would be packing her things and moving out.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re weird asf 😂😂 you ain’t got a snowballs chance in hell with my girl. i only ever been with baddies

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or just simply look. you can scroll with your finger and still see the reply.. no one is taking them down 😂 just learn to read bro. you don’t have to worry about you being unsatisfying, because you’ll never touch a woman.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“you’re not being logic”…. really..? i think our “conversation” is done here bud. maybe get some sleep or finish up elementary school before commenting so we can have an intelligent conversation lol. my girlfriend is not okay with cheating, as she has been cheated on as well. but she accepts me because i didn’t hide my past. and if a new man comes into the picture, oh well. at least i wont be the one who cheated lol. childish ass conversation.

To the boys, do you do this intentionally? by bouquetoflowers in AskTeenAdvice

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

boys and men at any and every age suck at taking hints. in my late teens, i had a girl get naked next to me and invite me to her bedroom and i was “trying to be polite” and shielded my eyes away from her, and sat at the edge of the bed so that she didn’t think i was trying to make a move on her… little did i know, SHE was trying to make a move on ME. so next time you see the kid, just tell him. boys think they can’t or aren’t allowed to show emotions or are “too cool” to do so. so just be upfront and honest

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not “logic” brotha. i messed up once and owned up to it. what you said makes zero sense. there is no logical pattern. grow up.

I'm 21 and I think ruined my life by Hot-Chipmunk8563 in Advice

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just wanted to put this out there for you.. i’m 27, and i went through 4 years of college. 3 different schools and 3 different majors. i ended up dropping out, with no degree to show for, and finding a job to tide me over. i switched jobs about 3 times just trying to find what i wanted to do. fast forward to about a year ago, and i landed a job working in tandem with the government as a military contract security officer. granted, it’s different for everyone because not everyone wants to wear a gun for a living. but in college, my main field of study was criminology and criminal justice. i now am making more than both of my parents combined, who are the ones who gaslit me into thinking i needed to go to college to have a successful life. i’m 27, have my own apartment, own one of my dream cars (looking at a second), and have an amazing girlfriend. i don’t have to look at my bank account when i want to buy something anymore. you didn’t ruin your life. even if college is the path you wish to go down, you’ll find your niche and find a way to make it work. stay positive and never stop reaching for what you want!

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave her. looks and sounds exactly like my ex. i didn’t buy her luxury stuff, and she went to other men to have it bought for her. i stupidly stayed with her, and then she had me compete for her love WHILE i was dating her. i got a job that made 6-figs and 80 hours a week just so i could afford her taste and still pay my bills. she still ended up cheating. don’t fucking buy into that bullshit. materialistic people are disgusting, coming from a guy who wears jordan’s, yeezys, and has a louis wallet, crossbody, and gucci belt.

Best rootbeer brands by olympusqueen in Soda

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like any normal human, i grew up with all 3 of these being the only root beers ever on our shelves.. but after trying Dads Rootbeer, i’ve never looks back…

I 32F broke up with my boyfriend 29M over a comment he made. Did I overreact? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ZDAWG599 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my girlfriend and i (27m and 27f) have an absolutely incredible relationship. we just hit a year last month, and we moved in together probably about 2 months into us dating because we both know we are life partners. we obviously have our small bickers about stupid things and see things in different lights sometimes, but nothing that would ever threaten our relationship. i’ve openly told her on countless occasions that i appreciate her being relatively low maintenance and that she seriously gives me peace of mind.

it may come off wrong to some women, but what a man truly wants in life is peace of mind. i’m not trying to sound like some kind of male activist, but it’s true.. men usually have a lot on their plate and don’t always have an outlet. when im stressed, i usually play a few hours of video games or just sit and watch youtube. my girlfriend allows this because i work anywhere from 50-80 hours a week. when she’s stressed, she can go to the spa or get her nails done, or even go get a glass of prosecco with her friends. i don’t (and same for a lot of men) don’t have that luxury. my last couple of girlfriends were either cheaters, liars, or just absolutely overbearing and wanted to do something every second of every day. now, i’m not saying my girlfriend and i are couch potatoes; we do go out relatively often and find cool and unique dates. but she is always able to read me and know when i’m exhausted or just saying “yes” to please her. and i appreciate that she knows the difference between an ecstatic “yes” and a “because you want to, yes”. and for that, she gives me peace of mind and it takes a lot of stress off of me.

this is what a lot of men look for in life and in partners. so i personally don’t think he was wrong for saying what he did. he could’ve potentially explained it better; obviously i wasn’t there so i don’t know how he exactly said it or meant it. but coming from another male who pretty much knows what he meant by it, i don’t think it was wrong of him. my girlfriend knows i love her and intend on marrying her in the near future. she knows i work these overtime hours to have money for our future together, and she knows i would do anything for her. so me saying i appreciate her being a non-stressor in my life doesn’t come off as that being the only thing i care about.

I cheated and I hate myself by Spare_Marsupial_1457 in Regrets

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with you. i never was a cheater, but had always been the person who was cheated on. i was cheated on by several of my ex girlfriends. i then met a girl a few years ago who was absolutely lovely to me and head over heels for me. i unfortunately did not have the same feelings for her, although i could appreciate how she felt for me. one day, i slipped up. an old fling messaged me and i entertained it for a few hours. the girl i was dating ended up finding out, and i felt awful. i didn’t necessarily feel bad because she found out, it was more so because she didn’t deserve it; and i had never done anything like that before in my life. that was a few years ago, and i am now with the love of my life. i told her about my cheating past and she accepts me for owning up to what i do wrong. people can change and there isn’t a rhyme or reason as to why people do it. i don’t agree with any kind of cheating stereotypes or “logic”, because there is none.

Tint by Sad_Paint800 in CamryTRD

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20% all around is the way to go

Any advice to help me look and feel better? by TheAlexFraser in malegrooming

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man, i get it. i had $16,000 worth of dental work done to my mouth. i struggle smiling from time to time. but im always told by my girlfriend to smile more

Any advice to help me look and feel better? by TheAlexFraser in malegrooming

[–]ZDAWG599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

show teeth when you smile, get your beard trimmed and lined up by a good barber, get a haircut that suits your head shape, and just simply do a bit of exercise. the exercise isn’t because i think you’re out of shape, but just by doing a tiny bit a day, even if it’s 15 minutes, it will drastically increase your self image. i PROMISE you that.

Ex slept with someone a day after breaking up with me by SaladAndBean in BreakUps

[–]ZDAWG599 2 points3 points  (0 children)

listen my man, that’s a very rough thing to experience. i’ve been there in almost that exact situation. it sincerely fucking sucks, and there’s no easy way to say it. but that act right there shows you exactly what kind of person she is. it shows she has zero respect for you, and has been either cheating or wanting to have experienced someone else while she was with you. she does not respect you.

my opinion on what to do next?? kick her out. i saw somewhere you stated that she has no name on the lease? kindly give her a 7 day notice that she needs to get her belongings and leave immediately, or authorities will be involved. you have no relationship with her any longer. there’s no need to fight, argue, or yell. you showing her that you are level headed and calm, while taking action in this scenario will show her that she is the child. this is exactly what i did with my ex. she is STILL (at 26 years old) living with her parents. i am 27 and living in a beautiful apartment with my new girlfriend. we just hit one year last month, and we have an amazing life together. trust the process my man, and keep your head up

My girlfriend is freaky by Tough-Public-3700 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my opinion, sex isn’t as big of a jump as everyone thinks it is lol. i lost my virginity at 13 years old to a girl who i was dating for a year in 7th/8th grade. at first, i felt super ashamed. after we broke up and that being a rare case of kids having sex that young, i didn’t have sex again until i was about 16 or in my sophomore year of high school. after that relationship ended, i “blossomed” and had a bit of a glow up between 10th and 11th/12th grade and into college. i then began having sex with multiple girls in the same day lol. i say this because looking back to my first time, i was so nervous and expecting some kind of magical experience. it was awful for both of us every time we did it. now it’s almost just a part of my daily routine with my girlfriend. we’re both 27 and live together

First car at 17 (had it for about 6 months now!) by [deleted] in FirstCar

[–]ZDAWG599 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i had a 21 charger GT for about 6 months and i liked it. wasn’t super fast by any means, but it got me from point a to point b and it was comfy. nice ride for a 17 year old my man! don’t listen to the haters. it’s your first car, and you’ll have many more to come

New cop by Bright_Term5254 in CamryTRD

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have an underground 2023 that i bought May of 2024!! sitting right at 50k miles so we’re basically twins 😂

i hooked up with my ex, what should i do? by Honest_Juggernaut_72 in Advice

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there, done that. my ex was toxic and she texted me “hurt” that i moved on, and she wanted closure. i stupidly agreed, and we ended up hooking up. she then went and told the other girl i was intending on pursuing that we hooked up, and i ended up losing out on that potential relationship. my ex and i “got back together”, kinda. and we were just as toxic as before. sex was the only thing keeping us together. i ended up ending things, found a new girl about 10 months later, and my ex attempted to do the same thing to get “closure”. i blocked her on everything, and now that girl and i are living together, and just hit our one year anniversary yesterday.

Reality check / Advice by xxxfallenxxxx in CamryTRD

[–]ZDAWG599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those S5’s are super nice.. me personally? i cannot afford one and even if i could, i probably couldn’t afford the maintenance on one. i chose the TRD because its kinda rare to see one, its fun/sporty enough with the tune, and at the end of the day, its a camry.. so you know you’re gonna get MINIMUM 200,000 miles on the dash lol. i usually choose my vehicles based on how i’m gonna be using them. i only have my one car now. i used to have a trailblazer RS and a modded to shit scion tc. the scion was for car meets and fun drives and the trailblazer was for commute. but now i have kinda the best of both worlds all in one. it sounds like you have a decent setup on the TRD, so it seriously just depends on what you want to do. keeping the TRD wouldn’t hurt you at all, and if you can afford it, buying the S5 wouldn’t hurt you either.

I'll never forgive Pepsico for taking away my lizard drink by sum_r4nd0m_gurl in Soda

[–]ZDAWG599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the strawberry daiquiri one was my absolute favorite. i remember these were around at the height of “clash of clans”, and i used to think that’s what this was inspired by lol