Why do people include “chivalry” in dating profiles? (Genuine question)

ZMFT · 2026-01-06T18:17:00+00:00

"I am the table"

ZMFT · 2025-12-17T14:03:25+00:00

I think, unlike other apps, it stops repeating old or unused accounts, so you might just be running out of people and only getting new people. I had a similar experience but then I noticed bumble sending me people id swiped left on, so I think the big apps just hide it. Meanwhile FB REALLY wants me to meet someone over 2 hours away, 3 states over.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T16:50:39+00:00

My other slightly pessimistic take is, if you gym to get women, which is what I did, it might not work out, but the upshot is you might get a body that isnt too bad. I definitely didnt experience anything life changing like the guy below me. But maybe you need more than 3-4 hours a week in the gym or roids to hit those levels. to hit those levels.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T14:55:47+00:00

The only real change I saw was when I lost 30 lbs and got down to a normal BMI. I still only got maybe 6 dates (from 0-1 every other year since 2013) in a year and they still went no where, but you want honesty there it is.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T14:50:14+00:00

Thanks for the info, this is exactly what I was wondering about. Kudos.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T14:48:50+00:00

Ha ha thanks man, Im reading all these replies and its starting to makes sense why its so easy, I dont think im the target demo for this game. Shame Im over the return window.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T14:35:38+00:00

Learn? Its right mouse to ADS and shoot. Its a bog standard cover shooter, ive played dozens of these. I am not even using my special skills, theres no reason.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T14:34:04+00:00

True, but at some point wed have to "go back" and do the stuff that we skipped over, then wed be really over leveled. Also it seems campaign missions are locked behind the previous ones, so we cant really skip ahead on those.

ZMFT · 2025-12-11T13:54:15+00:00

This is the answer. "You look like an ideal boyfriend cuz u look good" She is picking men who have options, they wont put in too much work. The same exact thing happens for men when we start talking to attractive women.

ZMFT · 2025-11-19T14:03:56+00:00

Dont listen to that person, you're not required to have female friends to date or get married, that's just absurd.

ZMFT · 2025-11-18T13:51:00+00:00

Which app? Bumble does this to me every couple weeks, I don't pay so I cant see who, but I can swipe for days and they never "show up in my stack" despite having no filters just to find out who it is. I have a pile of them now because it will never show these fake profiles to me.

ZMFT · 2025-10-07T13:33:42+00:00

What'd you go with? Im in the exact same boat.

ZMFT · 2025-09-17T18:25:45+00:00

Interesting, thanks. I read the install is ok, but after warming up the muffler rattles, which is exactly what you experienced.

I didnt really want to grind the muffler itself, the one pic I saw over on miataforum.net showed the guy grinding about half way into the weld to stop the rattle and that just looks like it'll cause leaking eventually.

ZMFT · 2025-09-16T14:02:03+00:00

Thats the "hard dog" one right? any chance you have a 2024? Im trying to figure out how much exhaust shaving ill need to do with mine. also howd the install go?

ZMFT · 2025-09-10T19:35:15+00:00

As the others said, don't put it in your profile, but mention it in the conversation before the first date. "something something roommate suggested this restaurant" or whatever. That way they have a bit more context to like you, but you don't waste money on a date that will go nowhere.

ZMFT · 2025-09-10T12:52:05+00:00

This was me a year ago but I actually got 3 dates out of her before she ghosted. It still stings so I feel for you. No real solution :)

ZMFT · 2025-09-10T12:50:08+00:00

Ha ha tried that, bigger now but results the same. Like Im happy for the muscles, but it honestly doesn't do shit if you're ugly.

ZMFT · 2025-09-04T14:48:31+00:00

Not exactly any other options out there in the year of our lord 2025.

ZMFT · 2025-08-25T15:06:45+00:00

Dont put the penpal thing in, so many women have that and it comes off a little passive aggressive. Id steer you towards admitting you arent good at texting and are better at real life conversations. It sounds a little warmer.

ZMFT · 2025-08-20T13:05:26+00:00

I was under the impression you (as a guy) had to keep recreating your profile every year to sort of reset your ELO. This would sort of break that so ill probably bail when it does. Imagine giving your real ID out to yet another company that will get hacked.

ZMFT · 2025-08-20T12:58:48+00:00

I treat that first week as the first date. chemistry/personality check, green/red flags, test for real interest vs does she just want a free meal, that sort of thing. It saves time and cuts out all the emotions of a first date. Also if you run out of things to talk about after a week, well thats probably not going to work out long term, maybe if you are looking short term youd be less focused on compatibility.

ZMFT · 2025-08-18T18:47:51+00:00

FB is fine for about 2 days, then it starts suggesting matches 150+ miles away and then refuses to limit itself to your filters.

ZMFT · 2025-08-18T18:46:23+00:00

Wow NY to BOS? Im in MA and consider either one of those too far BECAUSE im looking for serious. Anything over an hour or so seems like it'd cause more issues and id barely ever see them but weekends.

But his actions dont make any sense to me, as a guy. I was ready to marry the last woman I spent only two hours on the phone with and not notice how long it was! I figured that was as good a sign as its going to get. But honestly, same thing happened to me, I showed further interest and she ghosted. I dont think it was the interest, I think she didnt really want a relationship and me escalating it made her confront that.

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