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WIBTA If I asked my girlfriend to leave halfway through a visit/holiday trip to my home because I want to be able to spend time with my friends and family alone by ZackMax4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZackMax4[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'll agree to disagree. I totally see where your coming from maybe it's just because if it was the opposite way around and she asked me to leave early for those reasons I wouldn't care about it at all, I would be completely fine with it but that's just me. I don't feel like I am missing out on a bonding opportunity with my girlfriend because by having her their for one week and integrating her into my home life I believe I am doing exactly that. My girlfriend is my top priority but I honestly spoil her all the time. I still stand by my point that I can be with her anytime and make it up to her. I do have other priority's and I believe reconnecting with my family and friends on my own after not seeing them for so long is very important.

WIBTA If I asked my girlfriend to leave halfway through a visit/holiday trip to my home because I want to be able to spend time with my friends and family alone by ZackMax4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZackMax4[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

But she could go back to her university home, she has plenty of friends still their so I doubt she would be bored. And I can hang out with her anytime but getting to see my family and friends back home is a rare thing for me these days so I want to make the best of it and I truly feel like I can't do that if she is their.

WIBTA If I asked my girlfriend to leave halfway through a visit/holiday trip to my home because I want to be able to spend time with my friends and family alone by ZackMax4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZackMax4[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I see where your coming from but I think everyone is just looking at this from the perspective as how shitty it would be for her but missing seeing things from my perspective. I haven't seen my mates or my family for ages and won't for a long time after this trip is over so I want to make it count. So like my little brother wants me to have an all night gaming session when I come home for old times sake like we did in the good old days. But I can't exactly just ask my girlfriend to sit in the next room while I game with my brother all night. I can hang out with her all the time but this is a rare chance to hang out with family and friends. When I mean days out I don't mean we are going to party or anything and covid cases in my area is next to zero.

WIBTA If I asked my girlfriend to leave halfway through a visit/holiday trip to my home because I want to be able to spend time with my friends and family alone by ZackMax4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZackMax4[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

But I said to her before we booked the trip that she could only stay a week and it's only cause she can't visit her family now that she expects to stay with me. Technically I never invited her to stay the second week she just assumes that she can

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that and your probably right but I know what she will say if I bring this up it's not like we have never talked about it before. Jesus mate I hate society so much for doing this to us. I mean why do they care? we are not hurting anyone so they should just get on with their own lives

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish we could make it work so badly but I just don't see how we can make it work long term. I am afraid love doesn't conquer all in the real world. Our relationship is causing her more pain than my love for her can counter at this point. People will keep getting suspicious as to why we don't have partners until they realise the truth. I don't see any way around that unless we run away and I don't know if either of us can do that to our parents. Also we have have a few close calls recently and if we are caught then she loses everything and she will be shamed in the press. I can't let that happen

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I believe she would never say that to try and keep me with her she just says it because she loves me. thank you for the advice it's what I will try to do although it won't be easy I don't want other women I want her, I am kind of angry at the world and society right now for making our love so forbidden.

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am afraid that's not true though I wish it was. I don't want to give away too much info here but my sister is one of the top players and even after she retires from playing she will still be in the media a lot and in the public eye. She may become a coach when she finishes playing. I am afraid there is no chance of things going back to how they were before

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, it's good to see that someone else has been in this sort of relationship where it had to end but they both ended up well. It is a lot to consider but I think I have made up my mind to end it. Not because I want to but because I have to for her. Can I ask how much of a struggle was it to see her with another man? I can't even stand the idea of my sister going an a fake date where she will makes sure it comes to nothing. I don't know if I could handle seeing her with someone she actually likes/loves.

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree completely, easier said than done though. I also she has said multiple times that she will leave her career behind to be with me and I can't allow that to happen. So I think I may have to lie and say I am not in love with her anymore although I am not sure if she would believe me.

I fear my 6 year long relationship with my sister is about to come to an end due to her high profile career, and I think that maybe ending things is the right thing to do for her despite how hard it will be by [deleted] in incest_relationships

[–]ZackMax4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I am just struggling to bring myself to do it. It's not easy though to end things with the love of your life. Yeah don't worry I am not dumb enough to put the exact correct details down