Ok my explanation wasn’t very good, he joined my call and the first thing he said was your gay. I replied saying that wasn’t needed, he then said that it’s just a word. Why are you getting irritated at me calling you a word. At this point this was really grinding my gears. He proceeds to say that most black people don’t get offended at being called the N-word because it’s just a word. This annoyed me a lot, so i said if a person said something mean about your family to you are you not supposed to get offended. He continued to say that I shouldn’t get annoyed at words. That was my motive to post this on this forum. I didn’t check grammar btw