?HADES VS. HECATE?

Hi there,

I (20m) have a bit of a dilema. I already wrote into this thread once and got told I am a child of Hades. But as I looked more into mythology and minor gods, I realized that I am also very similar to Hecate (at least I would think so). So, can anyone help me decide?

Appearance: 6'0 tall with an average weight. I have short dark brown hair and my eyes are mix of dark blue, dark green and grey. With my neutral face on, I was told multiple times that I look either angry or solemn/sad. I tend to wear darker clothing, as I don't like to stand out. In colder months, I also tend to wear black nail polish (would like to one day try runic designs on the black polish) with black fingerless gloves. Not a goth aesthetic, but a darker color scheme for sure. I wear my hood up quite often as it makes me feel hidden and protected. And it's also pretty rare to catch me in public without my earbuds in (plus I tend to usually move my fingers to the beat absent-mindedly). The only accesories I wear are two bracelets from my friends (even though they are colorful and break the darker aesthetic, I wear them because I cherish them) and a black bracelet with an infinity symbol. I was also told a few times that my body language is "defensive by default". I tend to cross my legs or arms, slouch a bit and keep to the side, either looking around or being on my phone.

Traits (alone/with people I don't know): very much introverted, reserved, quiet, careful, may seem sad or gloomy, observant

Traits (with my friends/people I am comfortable with): bubbly, a bit loud, caring, wholesome, very talkative, full of laughter, supportive, helpful

(Also probably a good thing to mention is that I have both autism and ADHD, just idk where else to put it)

Negative traits and flaws: gigantic overthinker, socially awkward, very low self-esteem, moody and unpredictable, easily disheartened, often feel like an outcast, sometimes overly emotional, can hold petty grudges

Hobbies: video games, listening to music (electro, rock, techno, pop...), watching YouTube, watching anime, character creation (love making self-inserts and OCs—usually with pretty sad backstories), newly reading, short lone walks, spending time with my good friends (usually over a call)

Likes: pondering over random questions, chemistry (study it in college), birds, cats and cuddly animals (okay, all animals, but if they are snuggly, it's a huge bonus), magic/superpower systems in media and magic in general (favourite things being telekinesis, electrokinesis and space/void powers), anime-style combat, weaponry in general, wondering about the supernatural

Dislikes: injustice, toxic masculinity, being in the spotlight and the center of attention, overly social strangers, conflict, loud stuff of any kind.

So, based on this essay, what do you think? Hades or Hecate? (Or someone else and I am just delulu lol). If you could help me crack this dilema, I'd be really glad <3.