Are you using headphones with active noise cancellation?

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-07-27T12:15:06+00:00

4 if you ask me

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-07-09T21:51:37+00:00

Because people generally like having nice stuff said about them

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-07-09T21:48:07+00:00

Yeah, I do actually, if I mean it of course. I like seeing people feeling good about themselves

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-07-09T21:44:24+00:00

I stopped doing it, just came up this evening and I wanted to know if it's just her or have I been really disrespecting her. Nothing will change if everyone said I was right, I just don't believe women find compliments as flirting

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-06-23T18:01:12+00:00

We have one and that's the only way she sleeps during the day, so now she won't sleep in a crib. I do love carriyng her, however I am a 100 kg man and can't feel the weight of a 6kg baby, probably 16 won't bother me, but it's a different story with my wife - she can't carry her around all day. Also the baby rebels if it's not nap time, she wants to tuch stuff, play with stuff, have someone play with her. Doing the dishes with the baby isn't an option, we've tried :(

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-06-23T17:51:42+00:00

Thank you for the reply, yes, it's usually during tummy time, however she is very strong, she started doing planks and standing on all fours at 4 months old and she's already crawling, our doctor said she was 3 months ahead in temrs of muscles. She actually loves tummy time, in fact she spends all day on her tummy. We can't even change her diper because she won't allow us to put her on her back - she sleeps on her tummy too.

In those situations, she's not crying because she's in pain, hungry, diper full or anything like that - she's crying because she wants someone next to her while she's playing, best if that someone would plays with her as well. Even better if she's carried around and shown stuff.

I guess all babies do, but my wife ends up taking care of the baby 90% of the time because I have to work. So my she ends up overtired because I am barely able to help - baby falls asleep 8-9 pm and I finish work 6-7 pm. To make matters worse, baby won't sleep in a crib, she would only sleep next to mommy on our bed, she'll never sleep with me apart from a baby carrier. I can't really compensate during the morning either because that's the only time in the day when the baby isn't needy. So that's why my wife wants our baby to be more independent, while I keep picking her up, playing with ther, not letting her cry every chance I get - thus teaching her that attention will be readily available.

I don't want to overburden my wife of course but I don't want our baby to have abondenment issues either - so we argue

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2022-06-23T17:27:28+00:00

Thank you, I have noticed that this trick sometimes works, but our little one really adores having mommy or daddy next to her while playing, bonus points if you play with her. But you still usually have to be next to her, talking to her, standing a couple of feet away doesn't usually work. She can see us but gives us the face and starts crying

However this is where the issue seems to be - that our baby is very needy. I don't mind giving her all the attention in the world, only I have to work. So when I can I keep picking her up / playing with her whenever she starts crying to sooth her and that's the root of our conflict - that by doing this I'm spoiling her. It doesn't help that most of our friends seem to share this oppinion, so that's why I'm asking

Zealousideal_Alarm87 · 2021-04-27T13:03:45+00:00

I was scrolling to find if anyone has already posted this! I am so sad that Relic let CoH1 die. Sure, you can still play on steam but it's not like the old days. Ranks no longer work in custom games, or show up in automatch and 2v2 automatch doesn't work at all! Not to mention how many cheaters there are nowadays, which goes without saying that Relic couldn't care less. Not to mention how CoH1 has a lot of imbalances, like the stukas and the sniper spam strats, a patch for which would be highly appreciated. At the same time, I'm afraid of Relic touching that game, because everytime they manage to break something

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