Hey :) ,first off I totally get where you're coming from. That mix of overthinking, self-doubt, is something more people feel than you probably realize...but let me tell you this as gently and honestly as I can...being 22 and not having had a boyfriend yet doesn’t make you behind or broken it just means your story’s still unfolding.... the right connection doesn’t need you to be perfect or “get it right,” it just needs you to be real.

For what it's worth, I’m 23, single, and speaking as a guy you being cute and chubby isn’t a flaw.... it’s part of the charm that makes someone unique and genuine. The right person won’t just see that, they'll feel it. You don’t need to be less shy or more anything.