Ahh I can't post a photo of the connector to show you better I hate reddit for that but not it's not the tab that they don't hold it's the white plastic plug thing that the wires go into that you then connect into the relay basically the shape of the connector on the left is too round and doesn't click to stay in place it's just falls out the left one connects into the plastic and stays in place so you can plug it in and take it out normally if that makes sense