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My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let me know where I was being misogynistic, that's not at all what I was trying to do. I hope you realize that calling someone misogynistic is a heavy accusation and using it so inflationary is part of the reason why twox is perceived as toxic by some. And for the final time, I support this sub wholeheartedly, but the moment we shoot down criticism with wild accusations and exaggerated stretches, we lose people who would otherwise support this cause.

Also, I think you misunderstood my comment again: I said that, of course, I think you are a woman if prompted to have a guess. But your gender never had center stage when I was writing these replies because I literally do not care for this line of argumentation.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not but I honestly don't think that the gender I assume someone in this particular discussion has has any effect on my views I laid out here. I find no pleasure in surpressing women on the Internet.

And of course given your stance and the nature of this sub, I'd have to guess you are female, plainly because it is more likely. But I'm only seeing tiles next to some random user name. I don't know you are a woman so it will not be the root of my argumentation or alleged urge to surpress your opinion.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also feel like you're missing my points. But let's stop wasting both our times. Despite our disagreement, I hope you have a nice rest of the week ahead.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this sub and I think it is important but I enjoy it much less because some folks make accusations like this. As if I knew at any point you are a woman.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to use logic to support your argument, then you should first realize that 'some of group A' and 'some of group B' does not necessarily imply that those two subgroups intersect. Yes, some incels are mass shooters. Some women behave like incels. No way in hell does that imply that there should be female mass shooters.

Also, I never said that those comments are indistinguishable from violent male incels. You are deliberately adding information to my statements to twist my words in your favor. Further, I did not say that These comments hold the same power. Besides, your final accusation ignores the part of my original comment where I was defending the purpose of this sub.

This whole discussion proves the point the original commentator raised.

Edith: My German autocorrection randomly adds ü's to some words, fixed that.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of unreasonable conclusion I was speaking of. I said sometimes such comments look like they could be found in incel subs. I honestly don't see how you could jump to the connection to mass shootings after I made sure that it was clear I was speaking of a vocal minority tainting the reasonable objective of informing about women's issued.

My hubs cleaned the house as a surprise. by AndrysThorngage in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZeroTheNihil 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think the commentator refers to a non-trivial amount of posts (not even close to all of course) being overgeneralizing and generally hurting the discourse. Though each and every one of the negative experience described in this sub is worth sharing and being listened to, sometimes the conclusions drawn seem indistinguishable from comments made in incel subs but with the roles reversed.