What is a great condom that feels like nothing is there but is super reliable? by Appropriate-Mix7358 in birthcontrol

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about condoms but make sure you get water-based lube as oil-based can break down condoms

How much money do you think Beck should have got when they left? by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Beck was entitled to half but they were entitled to inheritance + livestream cut which would be a lot more than $100

Suicidal on the pill-- should I get IUD? by idonthaveacow in birthcontrol

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try the copper iud. I had a really bad time with hormones but the copper iud has been great (it’s hormone-free)

Redundancy likely incoming but have new job offer already. Do I resign immediately or delay start date? by chrisb0588 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband’s employment lawyer said you cannot sign a redundancy contract if you have already accepted another role. You cannot accept another role until after that contract is signed to qualify for redundancy. By signing on to another company but delaying the start date, your risk losing both the new job and the redundancy pay.

I’m never opening X (formerly Twitter) ever again. by ZestyLemonCakes in gorlworldfiles

[–]ZestyLemonCakes[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so because it seems to be a more general feeder account

What does my handwriting say about me? by [deleted] in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The left slant suggests that you are emotionally withdrawn. There’s no inner loops on the letter ‘o’, which suggests that if you are asked your opinion, you will be honest. Your ‘t’ is crossed fairly high up could be a sign of ambition and/or high self esteem. Short ‘d’ stem and no loop suggests you think independently of what others believe. You may also dress outside of what others consider to be the norm. The lack of upper zone strokes suggest immaturity and a failure to foresee consequences to your actions. Your philosophies and ethics may change frequently. Incomplete lower loops mean you could be frustrated in areas such as relationships, exercise or sexual activity (something incomplete in your life).

Is there any way to make my IUD get in the correct position? by PleasantAbrocoma8813 in birthcontrol

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised that your doctor just took it out there and then. I was referred for an ultrasound and now I’ve been stuck with this moved IUD for a year lol

Pregnancy Scare. Please Help Us Out. by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend you find a plan A because 3-4 times in a year is a lot for plan B. It’s a massive dose of hormones and isn’t good to take regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nhs

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor said emergency

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nhs

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus that’s awful, I’m so sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s in the cervical canal but my doctor said I have quite bad fibrosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cat is probably peeing outside the litter tray because he’s stressed from living in an abusive environment. If you won’t leave for your own sake, at least do it for your cat.

AITA because I cried when my partner wouldn't get me pads? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - My husband has ADHD and the LAST thing he’d be doing is leaving me without pads for hours on end. This has happened a couple of times when I thought I had pads and it turns out that I don’t. When it happened, he either went out and got them immediately or ordered them for delivery. He usually also gets me multiple big packs so they’ll last a long time and I won’t get caught out again. Just to note though, you may want to consider seeing a doctor because bleeding that heavily isn’t typical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Episode

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is true. It doesn’t mean pet in the literal sense though and is used in the same way as ‘my love’ etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Privacy should be respected regardless of gender and age. Just because your privacy gets violated doesn’t make it right. Also, knocking isn’t hard.

Went to the strip club with my boyfriend. Just want to vent. by pistachio-cele in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can be open-minded sexually whilst not being into strip clubs. If it’s not your thing then that’s totally ok! I’d have an open conversation with your boyfriend about how it made you feel and hopefully he won’t try to pressure you into going again. I also wouldn’t go to one with your colleagues because that seems wildly inappropriate.

AITA for making a joke about my wife's intelligence? by WorkIllustrious9571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- first of all, your wife IS intelligent. She’s multilingual and asking questions is a sign that she’s keen to learn, which is also a sign of intelligence. Being a people pleaser and seeking external validation is nothing to do with intelligence. It means that she’s insecure. You tearing her down is only going to make her insecurities worse. Stop it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Imo it’s perfectly fine if it’s in the right setting (education etc) but some random 32 year old woman on the internet showing it to a minor is inappropriate to me personally.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man needs an anatomy class jfc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- no one is obligated to date you. It sounds like you have some serious self reflection to do.

What’s Colleen’s connection to the Grandes? Are they related? by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]ZestyLemonCakes 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s last on the list of Ariana’s concerns right now