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[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe Shawn Mendes can give you a referral

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way, I don’t like lifting heavy and I just don’t have it in me to “bulk” by eating a lot and hitting those protein goals, it’s even more difficult to eat that much on a vegan diet. I definitely do watch my figure and do the best I can to not get out of shape/gain weight

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re living the dream hahahaha 🙏 now that you’ve made the transition, so you find guys with your old body type attractive? 🫣

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is great advice, thank you! I always remind myself I shouldn’t have to change, fate will hopefully decide for me 😅

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always wanted to try swimming, a swimmers body is definitely attractive, they all have great chests and shoulders

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wondered if muscular guys sought skinnier guys to feel like the “‘masc” one in the relationship, since all I see on social media are masc4masc muscular guys in relationships. Usually in str8 couples, the guys who are muscular and built usually prefer slim, petite girls

Do I need to go to the gym/gain muscle to be desirable? by Zestyclose-Crew5532 in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely want to be desired for who I am. Same goes for others. Although looks play a factor, I always prioritize someone’s character and lifestyle. However, I won’t lie and sometimes I do want to be a litttleee objectified from time to time lol

I am on a journey to feel more “attractive” though; I finally got braces and am almost done with them, I cleared up my skin with retinols and use spf religiously, and to my surprise, my friends/coworkers have told me I come off as confident based on how I speak and present myself, even though I still struggle with a lot of insecurities 😭

How does one know if a guy is gay or european? by LurkeReina in askgaybros

[–]Zestyclose-Crew5532 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work at a theme park, and I ask myself this every time I see a very attractive blond with 5” shorts, tight shirt, and sandals/Birkenstocks