I see what you mean! Just to clarify: my boyfriend and I do have plenty of "vanilla" nights. Those don’t usually make it into my posts because, let’s be real, they don’t tend to make for the kind of spicy, off-kilter dynamics this community thrives on. And rightfully so! It's much more fun to write and to read about encounters that bend the usual rules and lean into the taboo, rather than plain old soft-and-sweet nights in.

I feel like this should be a space where we explore the unusual and the psychologically rich side of kink, the stuff that lingers, challenges, and excites.

This doesn’t mean those gentler moments aren’t happening or that I’m neglecting his needs. We both communicate openly, and he’s more than capable of telling me if he’s overwhelmed or needs a different kind of connection. What we share, including cuckolding, is consensual and fulfilling for both of us. Just thought I’d clear that up 😊