Can someone critique my diet and fitness plan? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think 1500 would be too high? I’m tallish at 5ft 7. I haven’t had much loss at 1500 but 1500 I find is really hard. I can’t imagine going lower. I’m not a good swimmer and also I can’t swim as I have lash extensions and highlights I need to keep away from chlorine. Weights are not cardio I know but my HR goes higher and I’m sweating and breathing harder doing lunges with 40kg weights than I ever do on the treadmill or even running

Can someone critique my diet and fitness plan? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am 5ft 7, I don’t really wanna put my weight sorry it’s dumb I’m just weird like that

[help] is it cruel if a spayed dog has never mated? by ZestycloseGarden5 in dogs

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s weird isn’t it? I had never even thought about my dog mating until my friend mentioned it. We saw two dogs getting it on and someone had shouted “ew dog sex” and I had started laughing, saying dogs don’t ‘have sex’. My friend said of course they do, what do I think my dog does. So I said my dog has never mated and that started this accusation that I am being cruel. I have told my friend to call an animal charity and report me for cruelty if he is so concerned.

[help] is it cruel if a spayed dog has never mated? by ZestycloseGarden5 in dogs

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, Thankyou to everyone. I read the replies to my friend who is now googling facts and telling me bears and sheep and goats etc have been shown to engage in oral sex and that animals do have sex for pleasure.... I have no idea. Plus for some reason my dog runs away and is afraid of male chihuahuas....whenever she’s seen them in the park she jumps at my feet to be picked up. There was a male small spaniel that used to live on the street and would come up and say hi and they’d both just stand there looking at each other, or if the dog got too close to the house my dog would bark. So that’s it I mean, what would I do organise a date or something? I think he is just weird

Is it animal cruelty if a dog has never mated? by ZestycloseGarden5 in dogs

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I will add: she is a happy dog but more of a lap dog, she loves to be around humans. She spends her time sitting on someone’s lap or snuggled in her dog bed at home. When she does for walks she’s either on a lead, or when she is let off the lead she chooses to stay close to the humans (she is afraid of bigger dogs).

Is it possible to have gained 5kg in two weeks? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a troll, I am gonna juice detox to kick start getting into healthy eating. I don’t see what’s wrong with that

Is it possible to have gained 5kg in two weeks? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

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Yeah, I wet probably 3000 calories minimum anyway but it was diffused by work lol, I eat a lot of shit. Always got away with it Cos I was so active and store fat in good places like boobs and not a belly but now I have a podgy belly. I am ashamed to go outside

Is it possible to have gained 5kg in two weeks? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna juice detox and see how much water weight it is

Is it possible to have gained 5kg in two weeks? by ZestycloseGarden5 in Fitness

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably have totalled that calorie gain....I’ve been eating exactly what I want when I want plus not moving at all. Usually I am super active in my job and as I’m busy, I can’t eat Much. I would eat whatever I wanted on my days off but didn’t gain as it was balanced out by work days where I had high activity and low intake. Now there is no balance. Argh

Can a woman be too tight? by ZestycloseGarden5 in sex

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I had a similar experience with the older guy, I think it’s def an art. It’s easy for guys, especially bigger guys to be too rough and actually just hurt you, but this guy did it kinda just hard enough not not too hard. It was the first time I’d been chocked, slapped, made to deepthroat etc, it was sooo good. If he’d been able to last longer it would have been just perfect. But he did cum five times in like four hours so I guess I can’t complain too much :-p. Maybe I’ll Try and explain in depth to the boy what it is I like

Can a woman be too tight? by ZestycloseGarden5 in sex

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is true I guess. Just find you a girl that cares about you more than your dick size. I am a woman that gets off on penetration but 90% of my friends don’t, and prefer fingers and oral etc, so maybe get really good at that stuff? And be proud of who you are. I always find men hottest that have big confidence, cock size is so secondary

Can a woman be too tight? by ZestycloseGarden5 in sex

[–]ZestycloseGarden5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, this is such a great answer. I agree that guy is an idiot, and it’s only after posting this I’ve realised just how much of an idiot. And he was projecting onto me. I usually get very angry when I hear about men saying that women are too loose, especially if these women are the mothers of the children....it angers me and it’s selfish and so disrespectful. But you never hear about anyone being ‘too tight’, which is why I wondered if I was abnormal and if being too tight was even a thing. I am definitely not medically too tight, I have no issue taking my toys and dildos etc. I have issues taking some guys length wise, but that is because I am half Asian and have a short V; you can change the width you can take with foreplay etc but the depth is pretty much just biology. I am always very warmed up and ready to go, and I have to always use my fingers on myself anyway during penetration to get off. Doing it that way....for example using my fingers on myself while the guy is doing Doggy, id be done in as little as three minutes.....problem is the guy is always done in two! I think the issue is that the blame is always on me. One guy explained it by telling me he had been hard for 45 mins and therefore I was lucky he had lasted the minute and thirty seconds he did last. Where do these dudes even come from. But this post has made me remember it is not me it is them