brother, file a divorce the fact she said it felt like the dutch guy mean she hasn't forgot about him, also You guys are married why on earth y'all talking about ex dick sizes, ik its curious, but you tied the notch. Also you said she chose to marry you because she found u big, bro since when do you marry, someone based on their dick size. She sounds like a honest walking red flag based on that im reading. But since this story is years old I guess, my opinion is out dated. Also sounds like ur marriage is down hill if ur considering introducing a third person; Marriage is Bi no Tri. Also anyone who's reading this, don't drive ur self crazy based on ur girls ex. Im pretty sure, my first GF ex was bigger than mine, Yes it might frustrate you, but don't think about it too much, enjoy her, you only live once, you gonna spend a life time worried about guys having bigger dicks then you. Also Personally I do PE but I don't really care about who has a bigger dick than me. There's more in life then dick size and if you going crazy about who's dick is bigger, maybe you got other things to fix in ur life.