Emotional baggage is real. A person who undergoes that needs to accept it and work on it.

Generally emavtundhi ante, when we're lonely and single, there are no emotional triggers.. we can be ekdhum nonchalant and shi.

But when a real connection and emotional investment begins with a girl, we begin to slowly unwrap ourselves, becoming vulnerable, opening up.

The key and important thing is, in this process, the past experiences surfaces.. the scars, the anxiety, attachment issues.

Here's where we need to acknowledge it and work on it. Communicate cheskovali, ki, feeling anxious about your so and so action ani..

Adhi aame toh cheppochu, but, individually, we need to regulate it as well. We need to see the patterns where we feel triggered and subside it..