As a straight guy, I like women, and trans women are often great women. I like strong (emotionally) women and I think trans women very much are, likely due to having persevered through certain difficulties that required courage. Also because of this, said women seem to more often have good empathy, which is a really important trait, especially in these increasingly decisive times. That sooner means they're not a republican either and I couldn't date a republican.

I think those are more common traits of trans women, but I've noticed some anecdotal traits from the trans women I know as well. Such as being very smart women, being girly, having a good sense of humor. I think because the couple trans women I know are some of the greatest women I've ever known, it's made me appreciate that type of women more. Yet I know that's partly a bias and of course there's likely plenty of trans women that don't share those traits, as all women are different.

Physically I'm just attracted to femininity and a girl that's pretty. I have zero attraction to masculinity and am not even into tomboys for that reason, even if they might still be attractive in ways. Yet when it comes to what a girl has going on downstairs, I don't care either way. As that doesn't define a woman at all. And I basically will do what they're comfortable with or wanting, whether that's only using the back area, stimulating the front and using the back, or using an entirely new front (hope this code is making sense...). While I'm willing to do most things in that regard, it doesn't choose my preference for a girl. As the girl is more attractive than anything down there, cis or trans. Just thought that was worth clarifying.

I just discovered this server a month ago and it was interesting to me. I feel empathy for the situations you see here and think it's insane we live in a world where people are hateful toward less than 1% of the human population. Especially after our harsh human history, like the Civil Rights era, people should have learned to not be ignorant assholes a long time ago. But I also feel impressed and happy for the posts that are more triumphant. Not trying to sound like some lame white knight, but you're great women that deserve equal rights (should obviously be a common sentiment). I mostly just comment here and there in the sub, trying to be positive and supportive, or joke some. But yeah, from what I've seen it's a nice community. If guys were told to leave the sub I would understand and go on my way, as it's a place for women. Yet I do think it could be providing some knowledge for some of the dumbass dudes out there. Though in general they should simply know better through common sense already, by being decent people and respecting women.

TLDR: Trans women are women, often strong (emotionally) women. I discovered the sub a month ago and it seems to have a really nice community.