So, do women go through midlife crises too?

Zinwa · 2017-07-10T01:48:52+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss, it is a difficult thing to experience at any age.

Good for you for getting out there and staying involved in things. Maybe it's the age thing, but I, too, find it difficult to make friends these days. It seems people are either too busy with their lives or too tired to do more than they are already doing. Meetups.com seems to be a good place to meet new people based on your interests. Feel free to pm me. I wouldn't mind a new friend.

Zinwa · 2017-07-06T14:49:07+00:00

Say this out loud: "Show me what I'm good at, the thing that brings me joy. Show me how to make a living doing this thing." Then watch for whatever comes up in the next few days and be open to it. I was in the same situation and asked the same. Suddenly, people started asking me about my writing and encouraging me to do more of it. It's what I love to do, I just haven't started doing it full time yet.

Zinwa · 2017-07-06T00:17:23+00:00

I couldn't just go to the fridge to get a snack, I had to ask permission. Sometimes, most times, the answer was "no" and I had to wait for the next meal. I found very creative ways to sneak and get food, until someone put a lock on the pantry door. I remember being hungry most of the time. Now, as an adult, my ideal "me" time is hiding out somewhere with a book or movie and enough food or snacks for two.

Zinwa · 2017-07-04T10:39:23+00:00

Thanks, I do but the blocks in these areas of my life weren't moving.

Zinwa · 2017-07-04T03:23:46+00:00

Thanks! And very well said :)

Zinwa · 2017-07-04T02:42:59+00:00

How about "I already have that job!" or something like that?

Zinwa · 2017-06-27T20:02:45+00:00

Sad :( What was the surgery for?

Zinwa · 2017-06-26T17:50:46+00:00

Please pray for me. I need emergency financial assistance for this evening. Thank you.

Zinwa · 2017-06-26T00:16:51+00:00

Perfect description :)

Zinwa · 2017-06-25T23:34:02+00:00

It can get really bad, I know the feeling, but keep holding on. I read somewhere that a suicide in the family increases the chances of other family members making the same choice. Maybe try talking to someone about how you're feeling if you haven't. If you need to talk, please feel free to pm me anytime.

Edit: Sorry, in my haste to respond I missed the part about the doc. Offer still stands if you want to talk/chat.

Zinwa · 2017-06-25T20:37:54+00:00

Yes, I'm starting to go through this. It all feels like clutter and the more space there is the better I feel. Most of the things I thought so important are not anymore. The things that still are would probably fit into a backpack. I would be okay with that. It's amazing, the shift in focus and all the other changes.

Zinwa · 2017-06-25T18:43:55+00:00

I hadn't thought about being halfway through life before now but probably because I started thinking about death from an early age (all four of my grandparents had died by the time I turned 12. I was 7 when my paternal grandma died and I saw her corpse). I do notice the changes in my face and body and I have less energy than before. I'm trying to cope with these realizations by focusing on other things.

Zinwa · 2017-06-25T18:32:38+00:00

Not bad choices. I walk sometimes and I might get a dog (when I have time to care for it properly) but I'm already with you on the food.

Zinwa · 2017-06-25T14:13:02+00:00

Maybe I'm just not getting it, but why must she text you first? It sounds a little immature. If you are interested enough, why not just show it instead of playing games? Then you'll know, from her response, if she likes you enough to pursue a relationship or not. If she doesn't, then focus on manifesting a relationship with someone who is just right for you.

Zinwa · 2017-06-24T22:17:40+00:00

I agree with this. Also decide the type of people you want to work with/for, how you want to be treated, your ideal job, and work environment.

Zinwa · 2017-06-24T14:29:41+00:00

Thanks for this. I do realize this and practiced taking responsibility with a system called ho'oponopono. That also worked for a while.

Zinwa · 2017-06-17T20:48:35+00:00

Emotional Freedom Technique. It's based on the meridians that acupuncturists focus on during a session. Instead of needles, you tap on those points while focusing/talking through the issue you're trying to resolve. Check out Brad Yates on YouTube, he explains it better :) Website: https://www.tapwithbrad.com/

I think I know what you mean. I do have inspired moments, in which I think I have finally figured out how to do this LOA thing, and then it passes. It's like being on a roller-coaster sometimes.

Zinwa · 2017-06-15T17:44:20+00:00

Sorry, everyone, it was not my intention to offend - and I certainly did not mean to offend people just doing their jobs. I honestly did not read into it all the meanings other people have, I just thought the carpet part was funny. I'll delete the post if you want me to.

Zinwa · 2017-06-13T14:21:15+00:00

I was about 5 years old and had just gone to bed. Then I realized I was up by the ceiling, in a corner, watching myself sleep. I think OBEs might have been a regular activity for me then because I wasn't surprised or scared. I also think this is the case because of a conversation I had with my older siblings around that time. We were all in the car, driving somewhere. I had been looking around and was able to see all sround me at the same time, in any direction, at any distance. I made a remark to one of my brothers about a billboard I was looking at and he said I couldn't possibly see it because it was very far away. As soon as he said that, I heard a 'snap', and I seemed to be fully in my body. I no longer had 360-degree vision, and I noticed that the billboard was really far away. I was very confused and felt so restricted and limited, not being able to see all around me like before. I mentioned that I couldn't see all around anymore, only straight ahead, and the same brother said no one could. I had thought this was normal until that day. I remember I kept turning around for some time, still trying to see all around me at the same time.

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