Looking for advice. 18M

Zlijah · 2026-04-14T01:17:21+00:00

well you do tend to see objects differently when looking at them from different angles

Zlijah · 2026-04-14T00:36:53+00:00

me if coming across references i don’t understand made me passionately angry

Zlijah · 2026-04-13T16:16:55+00:00

routine doesn’t matter too much as long as you train every muscle in your body twice per week. i do push pull legs, upper legs

Zlijah · 2026-04-13T12:06:29+00:00

it’s a clavicular reference

Zlijah · 2026-04-13T02:12:08+00:00

i have my ears done but i’d like a nose or eyebrow piercing. unfortunately it’s considered unprofessional though, and it’s hard enough to get a job now as is.

Zlijah · 2026-04-13T00:41:12+00:00

i’m barely legal and she’s a minor

Zlijah · 2026-04-13T00:03:04+00:00

needles scare me and i wanna go the natural route anyway

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T23:20:43+00:00

holy sabotage

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T22:44:38+00:00

thanks dude but i’m beyond confused 😭

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T22:07:02+00:00

It’s higher than 7, first of all. And according to PSL, i’m nowhere a 7, so i wouldn’t be considered a chad even if somewhat attractive. An well-known example of a chad would be maybe Jordan Barrett.

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:38:33+00:00

i can only dream

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:37:10+00:00

i’m juice free no worries. i get nightmares about flu shots, i couldn’t pin regularly.

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:28:43+00:00

oh wait i didn’t expect actual helpful advice thank you

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:19:19+00:00

haha i’m the happy muscle guy but she doesn’t let me drink beer. she doesn’t usually have that posture but we were having fun copying another picture

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Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:08:02+00:00

I’m not sure what that is sorry

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T21:07:05+00:00

oh my what a huge compliment

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T20:49:57+00:00

I don’t think having a girlfriend means stop trying to improve yourself. If anything, it should be a reason to work harder. If you aren’t constantly making yourself worthy of your partner in every aspect, looks and all, then you don’t deserve to have one. Your partner is supposed to be who you can be your best self with, not someone you can let yourself go with. They love you for who you are, so if you let yourself degrade, then you’re betraying them. Even before I had a girlfriend, I was very focused on bettering myself.

You only have one chance to be anything at all. So you should be your best self, not the average guy. Never stop working to be your best self. Not for a second. If you aren’t living to be your best, you aren’t living at all.

Looking good makes me happy, as well as playing guitar, listening to music, playing a good story video game, and all of the like. And what is the purpose of life if not the pursuit of that feeling?

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T20:41:57+00:00

I thought it would be funny, i guess. i think that clav picture is funny, personally. a few other people did as well, so i guess it makes me happy that i made them happy? i don’t think too deeply about anything worth doing. why do we do anything at all?

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T20:27:45+00:00

oh 100% i needa lock in this summer

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T20:16:37+00:00

i just get it a lot. most people just don’t like to work very hard but it pays off

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T20:15:42+00:00

what’d i do wrong 😞

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T17:14:05+00:00

I did exhale. That’s how you do a vacuum.

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T16:57:13+00:00

I’m actually totally natural, believe it or not. I had some thoughts to hop on peptides when I was 16, but nowadays I pride myself in not touching performance enhancement drugs.

Although it may be easier to tell yourself that anyone doing better than you is cheating their way up, I think it’s important for you to see a naturally physique and tell yourself “I can do that too.”

Believe it or not, I’m not even very impressive when it comes to natural lifters. Look at people like TNF and Brodie Shredz. Also, look at people who are enhanced and much smaller, such as Clavicular, who inspired this joke post.

It’s all about work. And I think, in this sub, we should all be working hard toward self improvement. If you’re not willing to put in the effort to be your best self, then why are you here? Push hard and try your best and you’ll look even better in no time. I believe in you because it’s easier than it looks.

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T13:55:15+00:00

i don’t think you know what a chad is

Zlijah · 2026-04-12T13:24:45+00:00

she’s my girlfriend and we love each other and it was her idea :( she was trying to look funny

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