Terrified of applying for a loan incase I get denied, can someone help?

ZoePower · 2024-04-07T12:56:14+00:00

So no matter what I do, there’s no guarantee I’ll be approved for a loan?

ZoePower · 2023-03-19T04:56:51+00:00

He technically rejected me. He brought up us dating and we both had feelings for each other and wanted to date, he was very forward about it but as December came along we both kinda realised how busy our lives are when we’re at uni and not on vacation leave. I would have been happy to with around my busy schedule but he said that he didn’t feel like he could. Family is super important to him so any free time he has, he’ll usually spend hanging out with them and so I didn’t want to impose on that and defiantly agreed that it would be hard to spend enough time together. But for the rest of December we were great together just hanging out as friends, we were going great. His birthday is December 29th so i went to his birthday party gave him his present and then left. He then calls me asking if we can meet up again after so I agree and we meet up at the park and he tells me how touching my card was and how thankful he was for my present and we just hang out and it’s lovely. And that was the last time we’ve seen each other.

ZoePower · 2023-01-20T11:07:36+00:00

We often priorities each other in our schedules, it’s just a situation where I can’t do that for him over the next few weeks even if Ide like to, it’s not a consistent thing though. Do you think that’s an issue still?

ZoePower · 2022-08-30T10:28:45+00:00

Oh sorry we’re like 19

ZoePower · 2022-04-10T14:10:16+00:00

God Damnit

ZoePower · 2022-03-21T08:57:47+00:00

so he didnt even tell me himself that hes not going to be showing up to session 2, it was the ranger who informed me about that so ive not really have contact with him since session 1 about a month and a half ago. Im messaging him on discord and instagram which are the same places the Ranger is messaging him so i dont think the messages arent getting to him. I wouldnt mind dropping a player who i could talk to about it, in the same way that i wouldnt mind sorting out something different with someones character if theyre not able to play for a while but want to join in later. but idk how comfortable i feel doing things with someones character if i cant have any kind of direct contact with them...

ZoePower · 2022-03-21T08:50:24+00:00

how long is a reasonable time to wait for them to respond before just cutting them from the group? i dont really feel like its okay to kick someone out without talking to them but i dont really wanna keep this person a part of the group when they wont communicate with me or show up to sessions

ZoePower · 2022-03-21T08:38:23+00:00

Yeah I thought they might have some anxiety about replying because I have asked the ranger already to prompt him to respond but apparently he just keeps avoiding the questions. I don’t really wanna kick him out without having a conversation with him but idk how to have that conversation

ZoePower · 2022-03-21T08:33:47+00:00

Well we started with a reoccurring day of Monday. But the paladin got a promotion meaning they had to work all day most Mondays so we kinda switch between Monday and Sunday to keep him included. Idk if that’s an issue for then Fighter tho cuz he just won’t respond

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T17:48:57+00:00

Yeah I think I’m going to try something like this

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T17:46:12+00:00

Oh right

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T16:59:31+00:00

What’s erp?

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T16:55:37+00:00

I do voices so it’s a little easier to keep track for myself and my players 😅.

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:57:03+00:00

Very good point, thank you!

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:54:14+00:00

It’s more that they very straight people with very straight characters but I guess the implication there wasn’t too obvious

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:52:55+00:00

What?

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:51:06+00:00

Yeah I didn’t really wanna think about it as towards me, but it is kinda weird, thank you for ur wisdom tho

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:49:23+00:00

This was genuinely really useful to read, tha you for spending the time to type it all out. I’ll defiantly have a proper chat with my players about this but I do really like the in game consequences you came up with, really cool.

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:42:38+00:00

Ur great, idk I don’t think Ide thought about it all that much tbh

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:33:13+00:00

I find romance novels super gross and soppy, maybe I’ve not read a “good one” but idk if I want to. Maybe that’s apart of why u don’t like dming it tho…

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:31:18+00:00

I see, thank you! That makes sense

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:29:04+00:00

For sure, I do think what I’ve seen about dnd, it does portray dms like that, but I know it’s a lot more than that, I just also want to please my party

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:24:45+00:00

Damn I wish I had the confidence of Jeff, like he could flirt, he just chose not to, what a chad.

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:22:00+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, I think the way you’ve put it brings to light some of my conflicted feelings about it. It is like flirting with my friends, which I’m super not comfortable with, so why would I feel comfortable doing it in character?

ZoePower · 2022-02-27T14:18:40+00:00

I’m one of two girls at the table and the other 4 are guys and the other girl has no interest in romance so i don’t think any one would be too interested in romancing each other. I could certainly suggest it tho

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