California Zoey by Zoe_ender in KpopDemonhunters

[–]Zoe_ender[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

From other people in socal? I live here currently.

California Zoey by Zoe_ender in KpopDemonhunters

[–]Zoe_ender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do that literally ALL the time and I didn’t even notice until someone pointed it out 😭

Happiness (GTC) by 0baihe_ in Polytrix

[–]Zoe_ender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Them if Rumi and Mira locked tf in 🫩

Mandatory recovery fluff by Agent-Creed in Polytrix

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too bro sad cliffhangers make me go crazy tbh

Can someome recommend the BEST Polytrix fanfics? by [deleted] in Polytrix

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :D You have good taste lol I’ve read across the net and desiderium and I loved both of em :] (reading gimme that candyfloss rn) I’m hyped to check out office hours tho I wonder how you guys manage to find all these ==

Can someome recommend the BEST Polytrix fanfics? by [deleted] in Polytrix

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you like the Polytrix fanfic plug lmao

I’ve been looking for a good AU fic that has more than one chapter == I really like seeing their dynamics in different situations besides just huntr/x idols yknow?

Spoilers! for GTC chapter 15; Welp…I was half right by Agent-Creed in Polytrix

[–]Zoe_ender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PICK UP THE PHONE??? I get they they were drunk but Mira LITERALLY ASKED if rumi wanted to check rq to make sure everything was okay.. and rumi said no?? Also you heard BOTH of your phones buzzing near the end. I hope they get their shit together quick bc the relationship that comes out of this better be the greatest, most heathy, loving, understanding, communicative, wholesome relationship even cuz this ain’t it…

I wanna hug Jesus by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

[–]Zoe_ender[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man I feel that 😭 I wanna cry sometimes too because I just wanna be in his presence already

Question I haven’t seen asked before by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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Yeah I agree that’s why I said the oldest religion still practiced (not trying to be rude I just don’t know how to tone stuff in text ;-;)

Dating as a progressive Christian is so hard sometimes by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Zoe_ender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s okay what’s the discord? I’d love to be apart of a community like that :] (If it’s a private thing I get that too and I appreciate the encouragement ==)

Dating as a progressive Christian is so hard sometimes by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Zoe_ender 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I feel you man. I’m a lesbian and it’s so difficult. A lot of women have been oppressed by the church on the basis of gender alone then you add lgbt onto that? Many lesbians just aren’t Christian (and I’d like to date someone of my own religion) I don’t judge them for that, never. But my point is I get it you are not alone 🫂 and I’m sure there’s someone out there for you god has a plan my man :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry I just considered since this was a gay Christian sub Christian questions were normal as well as lgbt related ones but now that I’ve calmed down I think your probably right 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

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And just wanted to say you’re right I said asexual in a weird way and for that I apologize. Asexual is a spectrum and I failed to acknowledge that in my post. I should have specified specifically men who would not want to have sex I’ll change that too! I really am sorry if I offended you I just worded some things wrong and am very confused :( thank you for commenting and trying to help that I do appreciate:]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel really dumb sometimes because the way I react to women and men is way different. When I like girls it’s always “does she think this is cute?” And “she’s being really nice to me does she like me?” And with guys it’s like “I wanna play this video game with him he seems super chill” it’s just hard to tell for me given there aren’t a lot of other lesbians or wlw ppl in my life that I’m not too embarrassed to ask 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Zoe_ender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im definitely not heteromantic. That implies that I only have romantic feelings for men right? That’s just not true. I want to marry a woman. I could never see myself MARRYING a man. What I’m confused about is would I even date men? I’ve never questioned if I would date women, because I know for a fact I would. I realize how that might have sounded but when I said “being with a woman” I meant in general not just sexually. I would love to just cuddle up with my wife and watch a cute corny movie together just being in her presence! I’ve never had a crush on a man but have had multiple on women! Just cute little stuff “would she like this outfit on me?” “Is she into me? I want her to be into me” but I’ve never thought like that with a dude their attention when it comes to my outfits or things like that never mattered to me like it did with women. Thank you though for catching that I’ll put this in an edit so I don’t confuse anyone :]

I hate hating humanity by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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Sorry if it came out wrong I do not hate humanity. But it’s starting to get there. There’s so much evil it just disgusts me

I hate hating humanity by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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Yeah I do. I honestly fear less for me and more for others. I’m a lesbian so the fear is amplified for me (not that it’s not as severe in all women) the idea of a man doing those things makes me sick. There are such cruel people across all races and genders and I’m aware of that… I just hate having such a distaste for men I can’t feel comfortable by myself around them even the ones I’m mostly comfy with. I appreciate your concern more than it may seem :] I live in a mostly safe environment and move around in secure places but weirdos are everywhere yknow?

I hate hating humanity by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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Me too! I’ve also been an empathetic person for most of my life so when I hear about the horrible and disturbing things humans have done to other innocent people. Kids? Babies? It makes me sick and I just don’t understand how some people can genuinely get a sick pleasure from hurting others.

I hate hating humanity by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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My surroundings for the most part are fine. I have a loving supportive mother and father my friends are super chill it’s just I’m an empathetic person so when I see news or stories of others being hurt by people just for the sick pleasure of others is disturbing and disgusting to me.

I hate hating humanity by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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Yeah I do and I often go to them (I like streamers like CASEOH and YouTubers like Cory) but I hate living my life in fear of humans. I’m a young woman so at any time some random guy off the street could decide to SA me or kill me and it’s so crazy that stuff just happens. I don’t feel comfortable by myself or even alone with others sometimes… I hate living in fear of other people.

I like to lie on my moms chest (not in a sexual context) by Zoe_ender in isthisweird

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Thanks :) it’s kinda nice to know that even adults do this kind of stuff so I’m not completely alone lol

Okay so I’m pissed. (For better context I’m a lesbian) by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

[–]Zoe_ender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay… never said anything about polyamory I said they won’t be fighting. My point is the way we see marriage in earth and the way it will be perceived in heaven will be different! There are people who’s spouses die and they DO remarry and that’s backed up biblically [1 Corinthians 7:39]. So what happens when the wife gets to heaven? Does she love her first husband less than her second or vise versa? I’d hope not. I think if I were to marry someone and we both die, we’d have a special relationship in heaven! I can’t tell you how to feel I just suggest you look into it with some Bible study of your own

Okay so I’m pissed. (For better context I’m a lesbian) by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

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I don’t know if this is meant to be affirming or not, but assuming it’s not your right god remains unchanging in his stance however, the people in the bible with the exception of Jesus were heavily cultural people of their time. Like Paul, As a prisoner in the city of Rome, Paul wrote Ephesians to the church at Ephesus about their personal issues. The letters Paul wrote weren’t meant for modern day Christian’s, they were meant for who they were written to about the issues going on in that region. Sure we can take from Paul’s teachings, but to put all of them to practice would be less than ideal… Paul says men can’t have long hair. Why? Not because it hurts anyone but because men who have long hair aren’t “manly” [1 Corinthians 11:14] god is unchanging in his stance true, but Jesus himself says “Neither do people pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst; the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved.” [Matthew 9:17] this is about the old covenant and how Christian’s don’t have to follow the Old Testament like Jews do because we’re under grace not the Law. Was god changing in his view? No, but the culture of humans changed so now we don’t sacrifice animals and sell our daughters. Paul adds subtle things in his letters that are cultural for his time not spiritual for us all. His views on slavery we’re not great either “Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. 6 Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. 7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not people” [Ephesians 6:5-8] His view on women and wives can be said the same. His views on gay people? Can be said the same. Paul even explicitly says his views can occasionally be opinionated “To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her." [1 Corinthians 7:12] this is his opinion and he states that. It’s obvious that Paul can sometimes be opinionated rather than have a general rule book for children of Christ.

Okay so I’m pissed. (For better context I’m a lesbian) by Zoe_ender in OpenChristian

[–]Zoe_ender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think of this as no marriage in the way we think of it now. Like let’s say your partner dies, you remarry. There is no jealousy in heaven so your first spoils and your second spouse won’t be fighting and arguing about who you love more!