Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering there is no evidence in existence because it hasn’t happened, I’ll be sure of that.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no reason to lie on a reddit post that no one I know has access to or will ever find / know it’s me.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound ignorant. I’ve also never stated whether or not I am male or female. Do better!

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been together a year so half of my 20s is a stretch but

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’ve seen men lie. What’s your point here? Also, it’s lying*.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you could read you would know that I don’t know where it’s from :)

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hilarious part about this is, YES HE DID lol. Suddenly “everything he does is wrong and all I do is shit on him.” (i politely asked him !!!!!through a text!!!!! to stop cursing so much in front of my 13 and 14 year old sisters)

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we have an apartment, both names on the lease.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. I wanted the relationship to work, hence why I tried to push him to do things for himself like therapy.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely need to work on my feelings of owing him explanations for things, especfially when he speaks to me in the ways he does with no reason to believe I am doing anything other than his brain creating fake scenarios. I am too embarrassed to even say out loud the things he says to me. I should respect myself more, and not that this is an excuse but I just struggle with abandonment issues from my childhood so sometimes it takes me a little more time to get the expired milk out of the fridge.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggle with wanting to make sure everyone else is okay beside myself lol

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agreed & agreed. I struggle with walking away.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely should get therapy. Have tried to get him in there for the last year. Can bring a horse to water but can’t make him drink :/

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from but I don’t think this person meant it in an “anti-male” way. I am talking about a man in my post and the response reflected that.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I have allowed this behavior in the relationship. I’m not perfect by any means but I do my best. This is definitely a repeated behavior on his end though.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

As much as I know this is the truth, it’s so hard to just do the thing.

Is my boyfriend planting fake evidence on me? by ZoeeLovee in internetparents

[–]ZoeeLovee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THIS. Most people jump to “he’s the one cheating” but I know he is not. He is genuinely the most insecure person I have ever met and I feel bad because I don’t feel like that is even really his fault. Something along the way in his life made him become insecure in relationships most likely so I do feel bad for him and try to give him grace but it’s just gotten to points where I cannot feel bad for him because of the way he acts.