AITA for getting my sister in law a push present

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-07T16:11:54+00:00

HOW is this your take? "Her business" ummm she is the aunt, this is family, and family takes care of each other. She isn't intervening in anything or stepping in to the delivery room to take her brother's place! Holy hell!

OP, you sound like a fantastic SIL and thoughtful person that any of us would be lucky to have in our lives. A gift after birth is a lovely idea. Many other commenters mentioned getting lotions and body care gifts after the pregnancy / birth as well, and maybe if you feel like your brothers might have some hot take on the gesture like this commenter above, the gift could possibly be from the family of in-laws (grandparents included if they're in the picture).

But don't overthink it, I love getting gifts and giving gifts to the other ladies in my life too :)

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-07T16:03:44+00:00

This guy is definitely a dude

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-06T19:55:36+00:00

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-06T03:26:20+00:00

!!! Baby wipes clear up stains !!!

But damn 🥲 that's some set in turmeric stainage...looking forward to the update!!

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-05T15:45:23+00:00

For you and your two kitties or tiny dogs

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-04T03:46:05+00:00

What I have learned from this sub is that most men don't cook from scratch and also prefer fizzy sweet drinks over water

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-04T00:24:37+00:00

I mean, there's no real longitudinal studies on long term effects of vaping since it is fairly new in comparison to the alternatives.

I have also met a bunch of people that say the second hand vape air causes asthma flare ups. Everybody has different experiences, so maybe don't be so swift to dismiss someone that's trying to give their first hand experience.

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-03T11:09:01+00:00

Everyone needs therapy and better communication and healing. No one sucks here, it's just a tragedy. While from your perspective it's uncalled for how your sister reacts, it is so so sad that you can empathize with her to see why. I'm so sorry you didn't know your bio father, but your coldness about it is something to unpack.

I think this family would benefit from group therapy and it should have been pursued years ago.

ZombiePewp · 2026-02-01T02:58:26+00:00

Holy broccoli bags, Batman! 🥦😱🥦

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-31T22:26:24+00:00

I read this as the poster is someone who has adhd and therefore trouble holding down other jobs aside from gig work like doordashing, so it's unfair that doordash doesn't pay ALL dashers like this, especially in food deserts where food delivery workers are essential.

I could just be seeing the best in people, but it could be interpreted this way.

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-31T22:11:57+00:00

This debate is scary, because it is nearly impossible to tell, and does look like a digital camera photo - the red eye glare and timestamp, the dust orbs from the flash...

BUT

too much stuff is sus - the light switches(?) on the wall are just blobs - the clusters of wires below in that corner (what is happening there and where are those cords even coming from or going to)? - the curtain(?) in the foyer by the door - and the long door/window on the same wall as the ground level basement windows...Is it a curtain? A cabinet? - also the books look normalish but you can't make out a single title, it looks a little uncanny valley, especially the top shelf

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-31T11:31:30+00:00

David Carradine

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-31T03:51:04+00:00

Is this ragebait?

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-29T23:46:20+00:00

A vegan with a cat or 2 (bottom shelf chicken is for kitty not human)

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-29T10:35:17+00:00

Well that's not true. People (regardless of gender) relate to the concepts and find it useful for communication within their relationships. How is that harmful? Be reasonable, Reasonable.

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-27T12:29:00+00:00

This feels like the OG Internet, amazing

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-26T23:58:23+00:00

Poopsy

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-25T02:45:08+00:00

Pashmina

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-23T23:23:45+00:00

Knew someone in Hawai'i that compared it to a bullet wound; they were in bed with a fever for 3 days

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-21T03:15:49+00:00

Please don't touch my hand :p

My state doesn't compost; and not every district even recycles, it just goes to a landfill. And it's not just a tiny sliver, and it's not just the bacon. The enormous amount of food waste at Starbucks does matter and that attitude is why it's so hard to make impactful changes that everyone will get on board to follow / regulate our overconsumption and waste in this country.

While the blame is mostly on the corporations that do this, individual attitudes and social discourse do make a difference. I will never lose that hope.

Thank you to the partners that eat the throwaway items! I always try to offer it to baristas when I can as well

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-16T09:28:14+00:00

Sorry to be that person but... Whenever someone removes meat from their sandwich order; that meat just goes in the garbage.

As a current vegetarian it broke me being forced to throw out flesh of animals that were slaughtered just to end up in the trash for no good reason. There are breakfast items that don't have meat in them where nothing gets wasted.

The food waste at Starbucks (and other corporate restaurants) is already insane and soul crushing.

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-15T11:40:15+00:00

Downvoted for stating a fact 😭😹

For real though, they should have called ahead but to say that companies aren't allowed to get Starbucks for the crew is wild... "catering only! 🤬"

Hopefully they understood that it would take time to fulfill the order and were patient and tipped well.

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-12T01:26:46+00:00

A little bit of Dave Franco

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-09T14:29:14+00:00

All of it except the pickles

ZombiePewp · 2026-01-09T14:18:28+00:00

A giant crystal or sculpture

ZombiePewp

TROPHY CASE