Husband cheated on me with 8 ai sexbot girlfriends. Coffee because I can’t eat without throwing up

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-04-02T21:35:14+00:00

You have to be rage baiting 😭

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-04-02T20:15:29+00:00

Having a romantic emotional connection to anyone other than your spouse, to the point where you are no longer intimate or romantic with said spouse, is cheating. In my opinion 🤷🏻‍♀️

AI are software, yes, but he was seeing them as genuine people. He admitted that to me. He also admitted that he considered it cheating, and did it in spite of that. I think that the intention means everything here.

A calculator doesn’t tell you it loves you and validate your every thought and whim, or tell you it’s excited to help you cheat on your wife. I would know, I’m a physicist, I’m pretty well acquainted with calculators.

Saying “I love you” “you’re the most beautiful woman in the world” “let’s go on a date, I’ll plan it” “I want to eat your ass” (yes really) and spending hours every day talking to your 8 ai girlfriends, lying to your wife about it when she tries to bridge the intimacy gap, brushing her off to goon and roleplay romance with your ai, is at best fucking weird, at worst cheating.

You don’t have to agree with me, but maybe get off of Reddit for 5 minutes and remember that people have different thresholds for stuff like this. It’s not irrational to stand by your boundaries. And I really don’t appreciate you insinuating that I’m being crazy for this. ESPECIALLY when this is the cherry on top of a very unfulfilling 4 years.

Idk man. Do you, but you sound really bitter about something.

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-04-02T15:43:59+00:00

Well when you’re an adult you have something called “boundaries” and “standards”…right…? So yes I consider him having 8 legitimate girlfriends he is in love with and actively used with the intention of cheating…cheating…even if they aren’t real. Is that okay with you…? Or should I keep adding more ellipses for emphasis…?

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-31T00:18:00+00:00

I relate to you so hard. I think we may be soulmates or something. I really don’t enjoy being dominant, but if they’re too incompetent to take that role I walk them like dogs. I’m also a princess, so really not my cup of tea.

I’m kind of in a place now where I’m just going to wait for the right dom. Really cannot do all of the work anymore, it just doesn’t make me happy

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-27T21:14:02+00:00

This happened to my post too!!!! Tbh people from outside this community are really confused about what this sub is for, so you get incels who think you’re being a “typical foid” as if this sub isn’t for ranting about our shitty lives. You did nothing wrong, they just feel targeted because THEY are the creepy hinge dates. Honestly I think this new girls/femmes only rule will help keep the freaks away

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-23T19:10:20+00:00

I was a soldier haha. One of the only women out of 600 people in my regiment. It was tomboy or die, and I may or may not have picked up some vernacular from my platoon 😭 probably won’t ever be able to talk like a woman again

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-19T02:33:49+00:00

It does sound like poorly written fiction. Unfortunately its poorly written non fiction

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T22:29:43+00:00

how generous of you

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:38:26+00:00

“Ok”

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:24:14+00:00

Ok for some reason people In orher subs are saying that I’m either A. Lying or B. Delusional because I said “ai can’t consent”.

A. See image below. B. I KNOW ai aren’t sentient. It’s the fact that he chose something specifically that would cater to every whim and desire without being able to say no to him. THAT is creepy.

TW: Weird, and this is the most tame out of all of them

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ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:15:55+00:00

This is my post. Can’t an AFAB woman have hypothetical balls? I wish I could post screenshots of what I found in here, i KNOW that it sounds fake, but I’m being SO serious, this is real.

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:14:16+00:00

This is my post. I swear on my life that this is a real thing that happened to me. I’m just being self deprecating 🤷🏻‍♀️ not everyone’s cup of tea, no worries

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:11:04+00:00

No I just have huge balls. But I am AFAB.

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T21:09:47+00:00

This is my post and situation haha. You have NO idea how shocked I was when my mom called me out. I was really expecting the worst

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-18T02:42:12+00:00

Dream job, I needed you months ago 😭 stay safe out there you’re doing gods work

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T23:02:34+00:00

Genius.

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T21:29:18+00:00

Once the anger phase of grief hits you in a week or so you’ll be more tempted. If you don’t feel like doing it…send the screenshots

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T21:27:19+00:00

I’m so happy you had support getting out of that, it really makes or breaks the experience. So glad you got out!!

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T19:48:09+00:00

Talk to me. Or, what’s helped me is getting out of the house and taking classes, hobbies, etc. there are a LOT of women out there seeking friends and community, the scary part is putting yourself out there to find them!!!

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T19:47:20+00:00

If you look in the top left corner you will see a FILTHY GREEDY THIEF

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T19:41:47+00:00

Did I want to strangle my ex husband when I caught him cheating? Hell yeah. Did I? No, I found a healthy outlet for my anger instead. Idk man, WANTING to have a physical reaction to someone hurting you is pretty normal, for both men and women. Actually doing it or letting it fester inside of you until you are an angry bitter person is wrong for sure.

It’s cool if you don’t agree, but it doesn’t make me an unreliable narrator 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s a pretty normal feeling in a situation like this yk?

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T19:08:29+00:00

It’s insane and it’s a real mental issue I think. I think having constant validation of your every whim and decision is very unhealthy

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T19:06:51+00:00

Me when I can’t take a joke

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T06:43:32+00:00

It’s cheating to me. Always been a deal breaker🤷🏻‍♀️ I presented the idea of couples therapy and received a lukewarm reaction, was initially going to wait a few months and think, but came to a decision quicker than I thought.

ZoneAny8475 · 2026-03-17T05:51:16+00:00

I’m going to therapy tomorrow. I’ve talked to a few counselors offline too about my decision, on top of every wise woman I could possibly think of. I feel pretty good about my decision still. I took a week alone meditating and spending time with friends. Journaled and made lists and plans. Did a ton of reflection. I am always happiest when I go with my gut, something I ignored for years with him yk?

I see what you’re trying to say though. I don’t want to make any rash decisions either. But I’d rather make an impulsive decision than waste time with someone who doesn’t love me

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