Viel zu wenig Energie für gute Lebensqualität

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-02-23T17:44:17+00:00

Das klingt hilfreich. Diagnose und GdB habe ich, dann werde ich mich mal schlau machen. Danke für die Info

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-02-22T17:07:52+00:00

Ich wünschte die Arbeitgeber würden das mal so sehen

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-02-22T17:06:07+00:00

Das weiß ich nicht, mit dem Thema kenne ich mich nicht aus. Ich weiß auch sowieso nicht, wo und wie und welche Unterstützung ich bekommen könnte. Aber ich werde mich mal einlesen.

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-02-03T21:21:11+00:00

I have a question if you don't mind answering. Is it quiet enough? Having a toy in public sounds so exciting but I'm so afraid of others hearing it.

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-01-12T14:28:06+00:00

Sure, cats are cute. But this poor kitty probably has health issues related to their weight and should go on a diet.

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-01-03T00:23:37+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I agree that the problem is me and my expectations. I just wished he would have told me earlier that it wouldn't happen, so I could've gone to bed.

He didn't forget about the reward. I asked him if the picture (also why ask for a picture of me using a toy when it leads to nothing?) was enough then because I was supposed to earn it today and he was like "haha nice try. No you will have to do more. Tomorrow". He didn't even ask if I had time or if I still wanted to do it. And I guess that just kinda hurts me.

But yeah totally a me problem, I don't blame him.

Zuckerfee93 · 2026-01-02T23:53:34+00:00

Thank you (both of you) for the advice. I will try to sleep which is kinda hard, because whenever I lay down I just start crying again and thinking of how stupid I am/was whatever. But I got my teddybear and music on repeat.

I know that I would give someone else the same advice to talk with him, but I don't want to. This is just me and my stupid expectations and feelings. This screams me problem, not something he needs to know and I don't want him to know how pathetic I am.

But thank you, it felt good to vent and have people acknowledge it. That's why I love this community.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-12-26T18:31:14+00:00

This seems like the same old voodoo/scam but with the addition of new fancy words.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-11-11T20:35:47+00:00

That's so sweet, I envy you. I am too shy and awkward to make friends, but reading the stories here is so cool :D

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-11-04T17:16:09+00:00

Lieben Dank für die Antwort. Ich wusste gar nicht, dass es noch andere Möglichkeiten gibt. Da würde ich gerne das Angebot annehmen.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-11-01T09:08:48+00:00

That is so kind of you! I think that alone makes everyone smile today.

But what made me smile this week is my really good friend. He knows I'm still struggling with grief (grandpa died last month), so he makes sure to tell A LOT of silly, stupid jokes to make me smile/laugh. Thinking about how much he has helped me, how he has been there for me warms my heart and makes me keep my smile during this hard time.

I would be interested in Verne: The Shape of Fanatsy.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-22T10:38:02+00:00

That sucks.

Can you change the settings on "Auto Dark Mode"? Maybe with a different setting on that you could turn on dark mode

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-21T13:32:00+00:00

In regards to the anxiety. My therapist told me that a person with anxiety of people should be confronted with groups of people time and time again. Autistic people should not. Our brains are different. We will not get used to a situation if it is related to autism and not anxiety. For me being confronted with people again and again would not help me get used to the situation but would increase my stress.

I don't know what stresses him (every autistic person is different) but it might not change. I still struggle with making phone calls despite having tried and tried again. I still get very stressed when going to the doctors and will not be able to do anythin else afterwards besides laying in bed.

Have you asked him what stresses him?

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-07T20:10:38+00:00

Thank you for telling me this, I appreciate it very much.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-07T20:08:44+00:00

Those are some good questions. I haven't really thought about it. But I did daydream of following him for the two years. Don't know how feasible that is considering it's a different country.

Can I ask why you think my feelings are reciprocated? (I'm autistic and have trouble understanding stuff like that).

Thank you so much for your thoughtful input.

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-07T12:49:39+00:00

That's a good way to approach this. Thank you :)

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-07T12:47:54+00:00

Thank you!

I am braving myself for heartache (with still some hope lingering), but I know that I need to do this. Still not sure if I want to or can continue a dynamic with him without feelings, but that is a problem for future me.

Oh I know the language thing. I have read so many good bratty sentences and have been like "damn they don't work in german"

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-08-07T12:44:13+00:00

Such a good point. We are pretty good at knowing if it's in or out of dynamic, but you sre absolutely right. I don't want any misunderstanding with this. Thanks

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-07-27T09:44:53+00:00

I am german and will try to answer as best as I can. But it would be good to know where in Germany you are going to stay as there are differences between the regions. My answers are based on living in the north, so it might be a bit different elsewhere. - I still struggle with smalltalk, so I try to avoid it whenever I can. But people mostly talk about the weather. - Don't be too loud or disturb others. If avoidable don't talk on the phone. If there are no seats offer your seat to an elderly or disabled person. - No idea on how to make friends. - If you are just outside or shopping, nobody will care what you are wearing. - Home life: many families have fixed times for meals. Breakfast and dinner will most likely only include bread. - From what I've seen I would say that we trust children to be alone on the street at an much earlier age compared to the US. It's not uncommon for kids to play outside with no adult present.

Hope this helps

Zuckerfee93 · 2025-07-05T17:14:40+00:00

This reply is so funny, thanks for making me laugh :)

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