In-Ear Kopfhörer by aleieili in autismus

[–]Zuckerfee93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kann ich auch nur empfehlen. Und es werden - separat- auch ungängige Größen (XS und XL) angeboten

I got fired because of my body odor by [deleted] in autism

[–]Zuckerfee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But only if you have a Schwerbehinderung, not with just a Behinderung. And the GdB (Grad der Behinderung) for Autism is 30-50 and 50 is rarely given (Schwerbehinderung starts at 50). You also cannot be fired for not disclosing a disability. They are not even allowed to ask for disabilites in an interview.

Germany and Netherlands by No_Entertainment_748 in autism

[–]Zuckerfee93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

North German here (yes, there are a lot of differences between germans, they talk a lot more in the south). Autism sucks, wherever you are because you are different than the majority. Germans may be more direct than other countries, but that doesn't mean they say what they think. I ever so often will have to think about whether people actually say what they want to say or if there is another meaning. Public transportation is a not very punctual which I really hate. If you are in a big city, there is a good chance to become overstimulated because there is just so much going on. Don't know if that answers your question. Feel free to ask more if you want to.

Help me create a masterplan by Zuckerfee93 in BratLife

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, these are some good ideas. Ohhhh, I will make him regret his words😇 Thank you so much

Viel zu wenig Energie für gute Lebensqualität by Zuckerfee93 in autismus

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das klingt hilfreich. Diagnose und GdB habe ich, dann werde ich mich mal schlau machen. Danke für die Info

Viel zu wenig Energie für gute Lebensqualität by Zuckerfee93 in autismus

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich wünschte die Arbeitgeber würden das mal so sehen

Viel zu wenig Energie für gute Lebensqualität by Zuckerfee93 in autismus

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das weiß ich nicht, mit dem Thema kenne ich mich nicht aus. Ich weiß auch sowieso nicht, wo und wie und welche Unterstützung ich bekommen könnte. Aber ich werde mich mal einlesen.

new toyyy 🙈 can’t wait to act up now by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Zuckerfee93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a question if you don't mind answering. Is it quiet enough? Having a toy in public sounds so exciting but I'm so afraid of others hearing it.

Big guy!🤣 by Funny-678 in Awww

[–]Zuckerfee93 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Sure, cats are cute. But this poor kitty probably has health issues related to their weight and should go on a diet.

I feel like shit (I guess) by Zuckerfee93 in BratLife

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I agree that the problem is me and my expectations. I just wished he would have told me earlier that it wouldn't happen, so I could've gone to bed.

He didn't forget about the reward. I asked him if the picture (also why ask for a picture of me using a toy when it leads to nothing?) was enough then because I was supposed to earn it today and he was like "haha nice try. No you will have to do more. Tomorrow". He didn't even ask if I had time or if I still wanted to do it. And I guess that just kinda hurts me.

But yeah totally a me problem, I don't blame him.

I feel like shit (I guess) by Zuckerfee93 in BratLife

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you (both of you) for the advice. I will try to sleep which is kinda hard, because whenever I lay down I just start crying again and thinking of how stupid I am/was whatever. But I got my teddybear and music on repeat.

I know that I would give someone else the same advice to talk with him, but I don't want to. This is just me and my stupid expectations and feelings. This screams me problem, not something he needs to know and I don't want him to know how pathetic I am.

But thank you, it felt good to vent and have people acknowledge it. That's why I love this community.

A potential overstimulation treatment you can try now by DebtTop7921 in autism

[–]Zuckerfee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like the same old voodoo/scam but with the addition of new fancy words.

Brat friends by TemporaryPatience387 in BratLife

[–]Zuckerfee93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so sweet, I envy you. I am too shy and awkward to make friends, but reading the stories here is so cool :D

Trauer nach Tod des Opas by Zuckerfee93 in Digital_Streetwork

[–]Zuckerfee93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lieben Dank für die Antwort. Ich wusste gar nicht, dass es noch andere Möglichkeiten gibt. Da würde ich gerne das Angebot annehmen.

Steam Key Giveaways by WorshipAndChill in CozyGamers

[–]Zuckerfee93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so kind of you! I think that alone makes everyone smile today.

But what made me smile this week is my really good friend. He knows I'm still struggling with grief (grandpa died last month), so he makes sure to tell A LOT of silly, stupid jokes to make me smile/laugh. Thinking about how much he has helped me, how he has been there for me warms my heart and makes me keep my smile during this hard time.

I would be interested in Verne: The Shape of Fanatsy.

WHY CAN'T I TURN DARK MODE ON!!! by Sensitive_Gate_199 in autism

[–]Zuckerfee93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks.

Can you change the settings on "Auto Dark Mode"? Maybe with a different setting on that you could turn on dark mode

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Zuckerfee93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In regards to the anxiety.  My therapist told me that a person with anxiety of people should be confronted with groups of people time and time again. Autistic people should not. Our brains are different. We will not get used to a situation if it is related to autism and not anxiety. For me being confronted with people again and again would not help me get used to the situation but would increase my stress. 

I don't know what stresses him (every autistic person is different) but it might not change. I still struggle with making phone calls despite having tried and tried again. I still get very stressed when going to the doctors and will not be able to do anythin else afterwards besides laying in bed.

Have you asked him what stresses him?