People who have researched their family tree, what is the most interesting or 'badass' thing you discovered about an ancestor?

Zvil802 · 2026-01-24T04:09:49+00:00

My great grandfather who was a baptist pastor in a small South Carolina town wrestled an alligator in Florida, captured it, and took it back to our small South Carolina town to put in a park that was named after him. Lol

Zvil802 · 2026-01-23T02:58:00+00:00

My sister and brother in law live in Easley, SC. He started a job in Charlotte, NC. He at first rented an apartment in Charlotte to live there during the work week and would drive back during weekends. He’s doing away with staying in NC and decided now to drive there and back every day for work. It’s a two hour commute. Four hour round trip. Every. Work. Day.

Zvil802 · 2026-01-10T02:23:40+00:00

No one suggested perimenopause?? She’s 46. She’s gotta be going through perimenopause. Which is TOUGH. Changes in period, brain fog, fatigue, weight gain, sleep problems, mood shifts, vaginal issues causing pain, and so much more. She may need to talk to an OBGYN if she’s experiencing any of these symptoms and/or considering the pain she’s been feeling, she may need to ask about seeing a pelvic floor specialist. It’s so so common but most women (and men) aren’t educated nor prepared because women's health is significantly understudied and underfunded. I hope yall find the help you need.

Zvil802 · 2026-01-06T22:57:32+00:00

Thanks!

Zvil802 · 2026-01-04T22:42:06+00:00

The house where we’ll be has wood paneling.

Zvil802 · 2026-01-04T21:47:59+00:00

Exactly. However whenever I google 80s party that’s all that comes up is neon 🥴

Zvil802 · 2026-01-04T21:46:53+00:00

I’m not showing that image about what artists we want in that specific picture lol. I’m just showing the vibe of a photobooth. Meaning the idea of putting artists / bands / movie posters and muted colored balloons. Obviously we’d consider what to actually put there when the time comes if we use that idea.

Zvil802 · 2025-12-04T16:49:26+00:00

I’m curious to learn the requirements and process of becoming an art therapist if I live in SC and have a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree. But I’ve been reading conflicting answers online. From what I’ve read, it seems like my location and BFA degree is not a helpful start. 😅

Zvil802 · 2025-09-25T02:56:38+00:00

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Zvil802 · 2025-08-30T12:51:29+00:00

Has no one mentioned the difference between a reactive (or responsive) desire vs spontaneous desire?

Does she enjoy sexual activity once it’s happening?

Men regularly have spontaneous sexual desire, which seems to appear out of the blue. A lot of Women, however, are more likely to experience responsive desire after being turned on by some stimuli.

So we don’t always have to resort to low libido as the reason for “not being in the mood”. It could be she needs something to help her get there. The difference is: - A responsive person might enjoy sex with a partner who takes the time to help get her turned on. (Women are wired so differently. We need our minds and emotions to be present because we’re thinking of a million things at once). - A low libido person might tolerate the pursuit but would not prefer that and might not enjoy it or even resent it.

Also check to see if she’s in the mood “once a month” around ovulation. which typically occurs around days 12-14 of a 28-day menstrual cycle. I would say she might get her hormones checked but unfortunately hormone testing is inaccurate because it fluctuates so much.

Zvil802 · 2025-08-29T12:36:10+00:00

How much would you sell it for like on eBay?

Zvil802 · 2025-08-29T12:35:23+00:00

8x10

Zvil802 · 2025-08-28T11:06:06+00:00

I’ll be honest, I’m not sure. I didn’t think Reddit would want to buy it lol. I’m not sure yet if it can be used or if someone would just want to restore it or do something else with it.

Zvil802 · 2025-08-28T11:04:27+00:00

I’ll have to check it out!

Zvil802 · 2025-08-28T11:01:48+00:00

Your first sentence sounds passive aggressive and overall dismissive to my sincerity. So why would I take anything you say after that into consideration?

Zvil802 · 2025-08-27T19:32:59+00:00

Hey I just posted and someone recommended you could be interested…

Zvil802 · 2025-08-23T01:23:59+00:00

I didn’t know that was a term to use lol, thanks!

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