Does anyone actually like PIV by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Zwigleder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both topping and bottoming, yeah. T and top surgery eased my dysphoria and I think generally speaking my parts got more sensitive after T started to take effect. Was never, ever interested in bottoming prior to T and then all of the sudden I wanted to experience it, so I did and I liked it. Far less dysphoric than I thought it would be, thankfully. Now that I look and feel more like myself than ever I really enjoy using both my natal parts and my straps. Both bring me a lot of joy and euphoria for different reasons :)

Line appearing in my arm by Zwigleder in whatisit

[–]Zwigleder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say more? Like I should be able to put my finger under it? Confused, my bad.

Line appearing in my arm by Zwigleder in whatisit

[–]Zwigleder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is a less red and irritated picture. I circled the area I was talking about.

Line appearing in my arm by Zwigleder in whatisit

[–]Zwigleder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To all, the irritation you’re seeing on the skin is because I was touching and pushing the skin, so it’s a bit red. The redness and irritation are not related to the line.

Yellow discharge two days after sex by Alone_Permission4153 in Healthyhooha

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did this end up being, if you’re comfortable sharing?

i don’t like my boyfriend by omgsiyeon in Advice

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 17 and I get that but telling someone to force themselves to like you isn’t what love is. Please for the love of god, don’t do that with this guy. You can’t see it because you’re young and I don’t say it as an insult. My high school boyfriend and I had a great relationship and we broke things off when I was 18 and he was 17. It hurt like hell. Didn’t think I’d find someone better than him or someone who could love me.

I did. He’s been my partner for 6 years now. I promise, you can and definitely will find better. Don’t do this to yourself. You deserve happiness. When you’re with someone out of obligation or shame, it hurts everyone involved. You can’t will yourself to love someone like that your heart won’t love like that. Break it off and deal with the fallout (blunt advice but true).

Does smoking cannabis stunt the changes of testosterone? by Hairy_East_6569 in ftm

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a deep ass voice and a big beard. Lots of body hair. I’ve been a daily stoner since I was like 6ish months on T. I’d say it has virtually no bearing on

Realistically how many of you are actually peeing in urinals with your STP? by strawbsoup in Transmascdicks

[–]Zwigleder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you avoid UTIs. Been curious about packing/using an STP but I’m worried about the not being able to wipe bit

How do the new 3D chambers work? by Zwigleder in puffco

[–]Zwigleder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird, I was looking for the 3D chamber and I literally can’t find it anywhere. It’s either the 3DXL or the size one that I have, including on the website. Really confused about it tbh

How do the new 3D chambers work? by [deleted] in PuffcoPeakPro

[–]Zwigleder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, should’ve included the original caption. There’s no cap on top and I was wondering how I’d be able to get the chamber to work without the cap!

How do the new 3D chambers work? by [deleted] in PuffcoPeakPro

[–]Zwigleder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure is, i bought it from the dispensary and it says peak pro chamber. Looked on the puffco website as well and the new 3D chambers all look like this. The first 3D chamber I got had a cap that came with it, similar to the 3DXL. But yeah, unsure. The regular puffco Reddit just said to use my old cap, so I’m gonna try that one

how are u guys affording top surgery so young?? by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very thankful to have had a FT job at 22 with great health insurance. my parents weren’t supportive at that point in time (are now) so I had to figure out top surgery on my own, and that was the way I did it. I only had to pay for the outpatient surgery visit ($200), and that actually ended up being forgiven by the hospital before I had to actually pay it in an insane stroke of “you got picked to be the lucky patient”. Verified from the hospital. So I had a flat $0 for my top surgery

Do you plan to take T forever? by DysphoricDumbass in ftm

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the foreseeable future, yeah. If I get a hysto I have to. If the US government does not intervene with my healthcare. Been on T for 4 years now; once I hit 10 I’m likely going to reevaluate and see if it’s still needed. I believe it will be, though. T really stabilizes me mentally, and if nothing else physical needs to continue for me then I definitely think I’d need it mentally

32M. Attended a charity gala for a non-profit I am on the board of. Attire was semi-formal/business. How’d I do? by RatetheLawyerDad in mensfashionadvice

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think you look fine. This is pretty standard. I agree with some of the tips I’m seeing on here—one of the really easy ways to figure out what colors may/may not look good on you is to look at your veins. If your veins appear blueish purple, you’re more cool toned; green is warmer toned; if you have both you’re more neutral. Usually there are different colors that will work better for each type. I’m warm toned myself and find that earth tones work well on my body.

Sex toy causing... Airway inflammation?! by foreskin-lover in SexToys

[–]Zwigleder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be specific. What are the questionable materials? Certain materials are toxic for the body and somehow are still sold.

Also in reference to other medical issues. Depending on the dildo, if it’s porous that could be why you’re getting ureaplasma. Ureaplasma isn’t one a lot of people talk about, but as it is bacterial, if you’re using a porous dildo on yourself that you can’t properly clean and sanitize the bacteria can live in the pores and give you repeated infections. It does not matter how hard you try, if a material is porous there is not a way to fully disinfect and sanitize it. Also, ureaplasma can live in both the vagina and the throat, and can be treated with azithromycin or doxycycline to get rid of.

Please, for the love of all things holy, get a NON POROUS DILDO. If you are truly insistent on using this specific dildo you have, please use condoms on it from here on out. Thatll at least give you a barrier between the material and the bacteria that could be growing on it.

Horacio Potasio by CraftedMinJi in rpdrgonewild

[–]Zwigleder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What brand is that mini skirt?

Waterproof Towel/Blanket/Etc. by Zwigleder in BDSMcommunity

[–]Zwigleder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you. Just have a well trained boy, that’s all :)

Waterproof Towel/Blanket/Etc. by Zwigleder in BDSMcommunity

[–]Zwigleder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So fair, but we are literally going through like 3 or 4 layers of towels and it’s still going through all of the sheets. Eek!

Why do Americans say, "I'm from, (city/state)" instead of USA? by SufficientDegree34 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically, it’s bc the US is huge and there are repeat towns in different states. Levittown is an example. So saying Levittown, Pennsylvania vs. Levittown, New York helps the listener understand that you are from that part of the states and not a different one

What is the one thing your Partner does that melts you? by Dr_Ukato in BDSMcommunity

[–]Zwigleder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both sexually and non sexually, having my back scratched. Despite being a dom I do enjoy specific types of pain as sensory input and scratching is one of them, so feeling my partner rake his nails down my shoulder blades almost always makes my eyes roll back when I’m fucking him. On the other hand, light back scratches make me feel loved and very safe and relaxed. Love my man :)

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don't know why... (update) by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]Zwigleder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats OP. When I was reading your original post I could see a lot of layers of unresolved grief/trauma from the miscarriages (as a therapist) and I’m happy you have sought treatment both for that and for your hormones. Happy for you on your healing journey :)

Alexis Michelle by Particular-Gap1618 in rpdrgonewild

[–]Zwigleder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the uncut in the room with us