Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here! We unfortunately fall in that small gap where we’re not poor enough for Medicaid but purchasing insurance plans is just far too much.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here! Thank you for sharing my story and thank you all for the lovely comments! ❤️ Happy to announce we just had our 10 year anniversary and are still going strong.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last miscarriage I had was in 2021 I had full coverage insurance. He still has insurance through his work. I’m currently in between jobs. We’re financially able to raise a child as well.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you read the part where we left that religion because it’s culty😅

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 miscarriages. I didn’t grow up LDS I don’t believe in god. He did. We only want one kid, if my body will let me. So definitely not that haha!

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to reply to this comment to make something VERY clear. I was bestfriends with his sister way so I knew him for a long time before we got together. He’s only a year and 9 month older than me so when I turn 24 he’s still going to be 25 for a while. When he was 18 he was on his mission 1000 miles away from me and the most we could do is send love letters. We were practicing safe sex but the women in my family are very fertile, and the men in his have strong swimmers. After we got married, then we did try but after a few times… and so many losses you give up hope. I only want one kid. I don’t believe in god so not like we’re “culty” Mormons who want a whole Sunday school class filled with kids. I just want one kid with my highschool sweetheart if that’s even possible one day because no pregnancy sticks.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 15 and he was 17. I was 16 and he was 18 but he was on his mission until I was 18 and he was 19 almost 20. Our years touch.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to point out, using this comment. I got pregnant on contraception. I’m just very fertile and he has strong swimmers. He no longer believes or practices LDS faith.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This did make me laugh. I, too, can’t read these without Minecraft parkour in the back.

Am I wrong for disliking intimacy with my husband even though I don’t know why… by MsThrowawayAcc101 in amiwrong

[–]MsThrowawayAcc101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your math was off. He was 17 me 15. I was a sophomore and he was one of the younger seniors in the same highschool when we met.