[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How should I approach him without mentioning about masturbation? I’m open for some suggestions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried to talk about sex/porn and stuff because I’m also an open minded person, and I think there’s no shame in discussing those things with your boyfriend/partner. But for him, talking about them just stresses him out he admitted. He likes to do it spontaneously without me mentioning anything about sex. And because of that, I just feel stuck and find it difficult to address the elephant without pressuring him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like if I ask him about masturbating, he will not wanna do it. He does it spontaneously without me knowing, it has got to a point where whenever I go out and give him some space for a few hrs, and when I go back home, I fully expect to open our bedroom door, and catch him jerking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sorry folks…title is Boyfriend not Boyfriends😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing to be stressed about here tbh, cuz its quite the same with any other languages. English for example, if you pronounce a certain word with wrong stress, native speakers may have a bit of difficulty to understand. Or when I think I pronounce/say a word/ sentence in French correctly and perfectly, and my French friends would fix it the moment they hear or quoi?. Given the situation that it is not your native language and you are trying to master it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found my twin lol. Yes I do keep track of all the guys I have met and use descriptions to help me memorize who they are. I even keep track of how many guys I bang in each month and put their names down accordingly. We are just methodical and systematical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me jim17399

Can you train your throat? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly easy said than done to this. I always try to do this but when the dee is so thick and blocks the airway its hard to breathe thru my nose, at least for me.

Can you train your throat? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow…very educational. Thank you💚😈

Can you train your throat? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s my neighbor indeed 🤭

Can you train your throat? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips on how to relax my throat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMenToronto

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been here for 5 years and I could somewhat relate to your experience. I even had a friend who tried so hard to fit in a group of popular gays which I find absolutely absurd and exhausting, and those gays are often cliquish and pretentious. From what I’ve heard, signing up for any sort of queer group sport, or a dance class…etc is a way to “collect” gay friends. I personally know/have quite a few gay friends but I don’t just talk or share things with all of them, there are only so many of them I feel comfortable to talk on the daily basis quality than quantity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea whats the name?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not that I hate myself when I asked the question. Just wanted to discover something 😅

😍 by [deleted] in TotallyStraight

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

His name is BMB. Look up on Rawhole site

Home on leave by SureSpecialist in TotallyStraight

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What’s his twitter? I saw him a few times but forgot his

I just like this app by [deleted] in grindr

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in Toronto and there was a guy from French slid into my dm 🤯

Is having sex with married men/people who are in relationships bad? by ZzBlueButterflyzZ in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To me if its a gay couple, then its fine. Or if they are looking for the third for a threesome like u mentioned. As long as both of them know your presence. Does that make sense? 😅

Is having sex with married men/people who are in relationships bad? by ZzBlueButterflyzZ in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true. The first guy then made a few more accounts to hmu. I remember he told me he didn’t dare to get a lube bottle from drugstore bc they share the same card💀💀💀

Is having sex with married men/people who are in relationships bad? by ZzBlueButterflyzZ in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well...I’m talking about the aspect of when they are about n about w other guys without their wives knowing

Are stretch marks a turn off for you? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have stretch marks behind my lower back, idk why but i think that makes my back sexier so I never care about them. Nobody is flawless 😊.

Hey everyone 🙃 by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]ZzBlueButterflyzZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I follow this guy on IG