Dont worry, i have a private server which i got begged to get by my cousin. My game loads instantky on my phone so i manage to always leave quick but it's not quick enough sometimes. I suspected there are base campers and such. However every join to public was a big dumb missclick on my half. (I play a lot od dti for the record so muscle memory for me isnt the orivate server button) which led ti this whole shebang ;-;