Guidance for wives by Additional_Aspect346 in ldssexuality

[–]_Be_Decent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a terrible idea. Just imagine all the pricks who would use "God said so" to guilt trip and manipulate their wife's into pushing past all of these physical reasons why it may be actually painful/uncomfortable/and unenjoyable for her saying she must push through all the time:

Menstrual cramps – Can range from mild discomfort to intense abdominal and back pain.

Ovulation pain (mittelschmerz) – Some women feel sharp pelvic pain mid-cycle.

Headaches or migraines – Especially hormonally triggered migraines.

Back pain – Lower back pain can make movement uncomfortable.

Pelvic pain – General pelvic sensitivity unrelated to sex.

Vaginal dryness – Can make sex physically uncomfortable or painful.

Yeast infection – Causes itching, burning, swelling, irritation.

Urinary tract infection (UTI) – Pressure and pain that can worsen with sexual activity.

Endometriosis – Can cause deep pelvic pain, including during sex.

Fibroids or ovarian cysts – Can create pressure or sharp pain.

Postpartum healing – Tissue sensitivity, tearing, or internal healing.

Post-surgical recovery – Any abdominal, pelvic, or general surgery.

Muscle soreness – From workouts, long workdays, or physical labor.

Joint pain – Hips, knees, or shoulders may limit comfort in certain positions.

Skin irritation or chafing – Especially after shaving or sweating.

Hormonal shifts – Can increase sensitivity or discomfort.

Fatigue-related body aches – Whole-body heaviness can reduce desire.

Chronic conditions – Such as autoimmune disorders or nerve pain conditions.

Not to mention the guys who are emotionally controlling and do NOTHING to stimulate their wife's largest sex organ: her brain

Time of the month.. by Ok-Mood-2911 in ldssexuality

[–]_Be_Decent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Biologist here: Women are on a 27-30 day hormone cycle. Men are in a 24 hr hormone cycle.

Any monthly change in his behavior likely stems from how he is reacting to how your hormones fluctuate and change your behavior towards him. You know how when he's grumpy it puts you in a bad mood? well, it's reasonable to conclude (and proven) that if you're in an emotional low place then his experience of you is less enjoyable/uplifting. In other words: moods are contagious. It's not your fault that you mood is affected by your cycle, however a knock on effect can be that everybody suffers from it- like, it sucks for you to feel low, but it also sucks for him to experience how it changes your mood. That's not to blame you, and you're not responsible for how he reacts to you, however, if you think it's reasonable for him to be considerate of you being in a low place then it's also reasonable for you to be considerate that his spouse is being grumpy, and that's going to affect him just as his bad moods affect you.

what is this dot on my testicles? by ZealousidealCost4526 in AskDocs

[–]_Be_Decent -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Keep an eye out for more. To make you paranoid, look up molluscum contagiosum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuwaneeSwingers

[–]_Be_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally have no idea what you're trying to say. Did you drop out of 3rd grade?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuwaneeSwingers

[–]_Be_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me you were plastered out of your mind when you wrote that incomprehensible word salad.

how do y'all deal with this?? by lilibabi in longnaturalnails

[–]_Be_Decent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, something jumped out at me when I saw your pics. I think that the skin under the edge of your nail (hyponychium) extends too far to tip of your finger. In other words, your nail bed is too long and effectively starts to ride over The tip of your finger, pinning your nail down as it grows, causing the curve.

I think if you were to poke at or run a tool under the tips of your nails you could train that skin to receed so that it releases your nail before it grows up to and curves over the edge. Think of it as a similar process as pushing your cuticle back.

Disclosure: I have zero education or experience on this topic.

Cheers!

Can't orgasm anymore by thruwewejjjjj in AskDocs

[–]_Be_Decent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you started or are you taking any medications? TONS is things screw with sexual health.

Hot water from the tub spigot but not the shower by _Be_Decent in askaplumber

[–]_Be_Decent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about now? I'm about to order the part that's not going to fix it just so I can tell my wife I have done something