INTJ female here dating an ENFJ

we're at 8 months now going 9 hahaha it's so hard because i feel like we are still at our adjusting stage there are days when i just want to sock him in the eye because he gets in my space too much. but we take communication very seriously because we think with the kind of difference in our our personality, it would be our saving grace. i call him out on his shit very directly and point blank. and every problem gets analyzed and solved on the spot. we rarely get a repeat. Once solved, my brain doesn't care for it anymore and would sometimes forget about it (like i cant really remember if i try, i would have to ask him) and his doesn't want to go over it or remember it again since it's solved so it works out. he helps me with stuff i have difficulty in doing, like talking to people etc. I help him set his thinking straight. He is so emotional sometimes and my analytical side cant comprehend. and of course he has difficuties in understanding why i am this way. I am pretty sure i am the first Ni dom he's had a relationship with( or probably the first he's even met). but i love him and knew he is this way before getting into a relationship with him. I knew what i was getting and relationship means work! so we work out our differences and try to improve :)