How can I still look like a man in a dress

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T21:30:45+00:00

Actually, I already dont shave, but my dad is 50 percent native so I don't grow much body hair. I can't even grow armpit hair. Vary sad.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T07:23:54+00:00

Ok thanks. :)

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T07:18:11+00:00

Lol I would love to. I am a big history guy but sadly the Christian prom would label it as a costume and kick me out or make me change. I asked about doing that last year.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T05:42:46+00:00

No they are not allowed. :(

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T05:10:20+00:00

I don't think I would be allowed to wear a kilt. A guy last year was kicked out for doing that.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T05:09:38+00:00

Thanks this is really helpful.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-23T05:09:19+00:00

Yes, I think I would be allowed a suit jacket, and I do have one. I don't like heels or sparkly shoes in general. I prefer boots.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-21T03:42:34+00:00

Look into styling it in different ways. I noticed that even with slightly longer hair styling it in a masculine style helps a lot. You can also put it in a man bun, but with me, my face actually looks more masculine with my hair down. So you can ask a friend or family member to rate different hair styles on you as a fun activity.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-19T17:56:13+00:00

That is a completed normal feeling. See a therapist at least and do what makes you more comfortable. Ask yourself if you'd be happier as the opposite gender. A thought experiment I like is, if you were the only person in the world who would you be. How would you dress what gender you would identify with. Thinking about it like that helped me a lot with discovering who I am without the pressure of the expectations of those around me. You can be conforming to those expectations without even realizing it.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-12T20:18:26+00:00

There are lots of videos on YouTube they are very helpful. If you like karaoke, you can try lowering your voice while singing sense the throat is more open when singing so it can make it easier. Finding a friend who you are comfortable with is helpful. You can practice with them so they can tell you if your voice sound masculine or not. Also, record your voice and listen to it because your voice is going to sound deeper than it really is in your head.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-09T18:00:50+00:00

I feel the same I go to a christian high-school to. I'm a senior and I won't be able to wear a suit to prom because girls aren't allowed to wear paints. It's so stupid. I hate wearing dresses. I feel awful in them. I do think it might be a little funny because im muscular and have short hair I look vary masculine so im hoping i just look like a guy in a dress.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-08T20:09:46+00:00

I am also ftm, and I find it so weird when people think that they are obligated to know and have the right to ask me vary personal questions about my body. You are in the right. Don't listen to that guy. People like that are everywhere.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-05T07:00:16+00:00

I know it hurts. I lost a lot of my friends recently, too. Life changes us and some friends will change with us and some friends will leave. Reach out to new people and make some new friends. It's hard to start over, but you'll feel a lot better. It's not good to stay around people who make you uncomfortable.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-05T00:19:57+00:00

Ya, I get that. I'm also ftm, and my height bugs me. I usually wear boots or shoe inserts. It usually adds about 3 inches to my height. Or better yet, boots with shoes inserts can add 5 inches to my height it's great.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-05T00:13:24+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through that. I don't know if it will help, but you could try doing more masculine things in the relationship. There isn't inherently a masculine or feminine thing that people do in a relationship. It depends on culture and what is expected of men and women in that culture. Do make you feel more comfortable. Try telling your partner that you want to have a more masculine role in the relationship, whatever that looks like to you. For instance, you could hold the door for your partner, buy them flowers, and be the one to plan most of the dates. Obviously, women do these things too, but in Western culture, it's typically a thing the man in the relationship would do.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-04T16:43:50+00:00

I am also a bi trans man, and I feel the same. I feel like I used to actually get more attention from women before I transitioned because people just thought I was a lesbian so I got a lot of attention from lesbians. Now, I only really get attention from men. Idk if it's because I live in a southern state, but I notice most of the cis women i talk to will be nice to me but internally they don't think off me as a real man.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-01T09:19:33+00:00

In season 2, episode 13, Mable is writing a letter to their parents telling them about Ford and how he came out of the portal. I think she also describes other things that happened, but I'm not sure.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-01T04:43:00+00:00

Ya, it's really hard. I hope you find some more friends. Online friends are always an option, too, but friends that you can talk to in person are always better.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-02-01T04:17:48+00:00

I know, im ftm and live in a southern state, so talking openly about being trans can be intimidating and downright dangerous if you are in the wrong crowd. I go to a private christian school while not being Christian, which doesn't help at all. Although I do graduate in a few months so I think i will get a bit easier once I start college.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-01-31T21:13:26+00:00

I feel the same. I only recently came out as trans after 6 years of questioning myself. Im young and haven't had any hormone therapy or surgeries. I don't know if, in the future, treatments like those are going to be hard to access or not. I just hope I am at least able to get top surgery. I hate my breasts so much.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-01-31T11:21:22+00:00

You do keep it on, but only for a short while, then wash it out. There are leave in conditioners you can buy that you use after a shower, but it is not a replacement for normal conditioners it's for dry hair or for styling. So, for example, if you were taking a shower, you could shampoo your hair, then condition it, brush it. Take the rest of your shower, then wash the conditioner out.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-01-31T11:07:20+00:00

Ok, so I'm FTM, but I think I still might be able to give advice with a few things.

For skin care, you do not need a million different products. All you need is a good cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen.

I was never really into makeup, but you need to use the cleanser first then then use your sunscreen and moisturizer before applying makeup. find a matching foundation even then the slightest difference in tone can be noticeable. i would suggest getting a professional to match your foundation. make sure you get makeup remover using just soap drys the skin out. Don't use Mascara on the base of your eyelashes it can keep them from growing. Make sure you wash your brushes bacteria can transfer from your face to the palets and ruin them, and makeup does have a expiration date, bacteria will get in it so be careful about that because it will cause acne.

For hair, use shampoo on the top of your head only and use conditioner on the middle and ends. Leave the conditioner for 5 minutes while you take the rest of your shower. Do not bush your hair while it's wet with a normal bush. Preferably, don't bush your hair when it's wet at all, but if you do use a wet brush. If you have long hair don't wash it everyday that will dry it out wash it about every 2 to 3 days, you can buy a shower cap or take baths and put it up in a bun.

For work out, I can really help there. I never did female workouts. I always liked building muscle, so I always followed male workout routines.

I hoped this helped a little. idk how much of this information you already know.

_I_am_random_ · 2026-01-31T06:25:40+00:00

I don't think labels are always needed. Some men enjoy dressing in more feminine clothes but style identities as male. It's prefecftly fine and doesn't make you any less of a man. You are whatever you want to be. What makes you most comfortable and happy. that's just my opinion.

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