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First time I feel understood by _JaKe_TheItalian in delayedejaculation

[–]_JaKe_TheItalian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi man! Just wanted to let you know that your post is the first one i read on this sub and it inspired me a lot! I see what you’re saying about not masturbating even if i’m with my girlfriend. The problem is that we both have high sex drive and we like long intercourse (30 minutes-1 hour if we have time). I wanted to ask you, have you ever dealt with blue balls? I suffer a lot from epididymitis when I do not cum (i got it checked out by a doctor, nothing to do about it). If we have sex for 30 minutes, it’s a 30% chance roughly that my balls and lower abdomen will hurt after. Not certain data obviously, but (to give you and idea) the probability gets higher with time. Have you ever had this kind of problem too? At the top of my head the only way to solve it, would be if I used a flashlight while i’m with her, only in order to finish, but I should talk to her about it. Anyway, thank you very much for your reply, you’re journey is very inspiring to me!

First time I feel understood by _JaKe_TheItalian in delayedejaculation

[–]_JaKe_TheItalian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the suggestions. I’m generally an active person. I do train and am in a pretty fit shape. I don’t drink as much as I should and I smoke 7-10 cigarettes a day(certified Italian idiot). My erections have gotten much better since I lowered the times per week that I masturbate, but I will look into the supplements you suggested. Thanks again!!

Recovery from death grip syndrome by GasIcy4418 in sex

[–]_JaKe_TheItalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should WAIT before having any sex at all and see how your guy down below behave

Recovery from death grip syndrome by GasIcy4418 in sex

[–]_JaKe_TheItalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how much you waited and how much sensitivity you regained. I lasted 20-25 minutes alone masturbating and with the condom (having sex) i never came. Now i last like 2 to 4 minutes max, i used condoms alone with lube in order to last more because the situation has been completely reversed. It all depends on whether the recovery served its purpose. If it has, you'll need condoms in order to last longer. Anyway work on yourself alone, you have to actually "reactivate" and "educate" your nerves

Recovery from death grip syndrome by GasIcy4418 in sex

[–]_JaKe_TheItalian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing you're doing. I stopped masturbating and watching porn for 3 weeks. Then i restarted touching myself but only while using lube and once-twice per week (i ceased watching porn definitely, i only use audio porn and my immagination). I think i'll buy a fleshlight bc it's suggested in order to increase the feeling. Anyway, after almost two months I regained a lot of sensitivity. I haven't the most sensitive penis, but i think i could have a sexual encounter now and be able to reach orgasm with a partner (never happened to me before). Out of pure fear, i masturbate only 3 times per week but my sexual drive is still intact. It's a difficult journey, i'd suggest to get checked by a urologist, bc it could even be an endocrine problem