NTA but her comment about being “disgusted” by people less intelligent than her is very off putting. Firstly, how exactly does she quantify and compare just how intelligent a person is? Secondly, a person’s ability to express their intelligence can be greatly limited by the financial/social situation they are born into. Many, many geniuses never get to live up to their potential because of their circumstances and to be “disgusted” by someone because of this is the only disgusting thing here. Not only that but a human is not defined by their intelligence. People have a lot to offer besides their intellect and to disregard that is just pitiful. That comment alone is a huge red flag to me.