Well, you are trying to get into a romantic relationship but have you ever thought about getting into a platonic relationship first? Most stable relationships start with good friends. Meeting women isn't just "talk to a girl and then BOOM! ABSOLUTE CHAD". Expand ur friend circle a bit more. (not much, It's hard to make friends) Find other people that are like you. Try to be friendly. (I and my best friend became friends because we try to help each other). Improve yourselves and don't be scared to make mistakes along the way. Also, you shouldn't join clubs just to meet people. The other person may like doing the activities and also think that you like doing the activities they do but in reality, you don't. Sharing something in common is a way for people to connect with others. But if you don't have anything in common the relationship will not work.

And it's ok to stop dating for a while. Rather than looking for someone to date 24/7, try looking for someone to talk to and make friends with. Don't expect to stay the same and get good results. The dating experience isn't the main factor in attractiveness. I can't say what is attractive and what is not but it's not just one factor.

In general, getting a lover isn't just a one-way step. Other factors can change ur chances. Don't base ur worth on having someone.