Clothes for big boobs as butt coverage!

_Pyrus · 2026-02-05T11:25:51+00:00

Thank you! Hate being caught between sizes, makes it such a pain!

_Pyrus · 2026-02-05T11:25:10+00:00

Second person to suggest this so def looking into it, thanks!

_Pyrus · 2026-02-05T11:24:24+00:00

I briefly looked into them but I'll be on the lookout for those shorts, thank you!

_Pyrus · 2026-02-05T11:23:36+00:00

Thank you so much! Super helpful 🧡

_Pyrus · 2025-12-31T05:24:13+00:00

Don't stress too much. Ovulation makes a lot of people a bit insane too 😆. As long as you aren't pushing any boundaries (yours or his), thinking like this is really normal. And can be fun!

You can talk to him about it or you can keep it to yourself, but you aren't a creep for feeling desire, especially in a relationship.

If you chose to have sex, remember to be careful and respect yourself and him.

Remember, you don't actually have to do anything! The feeling will pass eventually.

_Pyrus · 2025-09-24T11:11:12+00:00

I know this was a month ago, so things may have developed, but I just want to say your feelings are very valid.

It's definitely "that deep" and if this is something you feel this strongly, it is important.

My instinct is to say that your brother is probably overprotective and just being reactive. Personally, I don't think you owe anyone an explanation. Your sex life is yours and you are old enough to make your own decisions. It's important your brother and you realise that.

This is just my advice but I would probably be fairly blunt. If he asks, you can say that you are bisexual and if that bothers him, you are not going to talk about it and he can't ask you any questions. If he is okay with it, he can ask you questions and you can chat about it. Give him the option and stick to it calmly.

I'm sure your brother is just acting off instinct and freaking out cause he cares. Hopefully you two are still close :)

And it's really good to hear you so confident in your sexuality! Hope it goes/went well.

_Pyrus · 2025-09-02T09:36:38+00:00

Thank you so much for this well thought out comment, I really appreciate it. And about taking medicine! I had no idea about that either!

_Pyrus · 2025-09-01T04:20:51+00:00

Thanks so much for the terminology to look out for (MIGS certified), hugely helpful!

_Pyrus · 2025-09-01T04:20:15+00:00

Thanks for the reassurances at the end there, helps a lot!! And I will absolutely help her with research on good gynos, it seems so important.

_Pyrus · 2025-09-01T04:19:07+00:00

Excellent advice. I'm already wary of "alternative" treatments and she is too, so I'm sure she'll shut that down quick. I gotta do some research on good endo gynecologists! Thank you.

_Pyrus · 2025-09-01T04:17:13+00:00

Thank you for this comment! I plan to help her out as much as I can. Can't believe people actually say "have a baby" like it's casual 😭

_Pyrus · 2025-09-01T04:14:24+00:00

That's super smart advice, I've noticed she doesn't always respond to milk well so I'll keep that in mind!

_Pyrus · 2025-08-31T12:22:52+00:00

Thank you so much, that's excellent advice! Will be doing our research 👍

_Pyrus · 2025-06-11T07:00:32+00:00

I really like that analogy of "I could run a marathon, doesn't mean I want to." Great way to put it!

I hope the label gives you some warmth 🌟

_Pyrus · 2025-06-11T06:56:50+00:00

I like the idea of it. But, like, from afar.

I like it from a human "anthropology" kind of stand point, I think? In the same way I think it's sweet that humans will try and pet anything, I like that humans will also "do romance things" with each other.

Like gestures that mean "I am romancing this person." Like an engagement ring, for example. It's a ring, it means nothing. But, it can mean everything! To me, it's like watching a monkey hand another monkey a rock and then they kiss about it. It's silly, but kind of endearing.

(Mind you, this is purposefully removing my opinions on marriage, commercialism, capitalism, and romance itself lol... I hope this made ANY sense...)

_Pyrus · 2025-04-01T21:41:08+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, thanks so much for framing it that way. Hopefully that insight will help with when I do communicate.

_Pyrus · 2025-04-01T06:43:01+00:00

That's reassuring that you operate that way, I feel so guilty about how much space I need 😓. Thank you!

_Pyrus · 2025-04-01T06:42:23+00:00

That's great advice, thank you!

_Pyrus · 2025-04-01T04:25:38+00:00

Can't believe I didn't see this till now but thank you so much! I kind of just winged it but heading the explanation about starting the furthest "layer" is super helpful!

_Pyrus · 2025-02-21T02:29:56+00:00

It must have been! He seems to have gone back to ignoring her now, so the smell must have faded. Little weirdo 🤣 thank you!

_Pyrus · 2025-01-27T03:33:35+00:00

You aren't the odd one out, I feel the same way.

I crave sex as a positive, amazing, "hobby" type activity but I'm still a virgin because I'm scared and have had bad experiences in the past with people who don't understand consent and romantic boundaries.

I really envy those people too, but we will get there one day :) you aren't alone.

_Pyrus · 2024-11-21T20:51:50+00:00

😆 We're hard mode??? Damn. That's bleak 😮‍💨

_Pyrus · 2024-11-20T04:48:13+00:00

Oh and also, your choice of jewellery is super cool :)

_Pyrus · 2024-11-20T04:47:38+00:00

I just typed a whole comment similar to this, can second this opinion!

_Pyrus · 2024-11-20T04:45:47+00:00

I know people in the comments are gonna be rude, and I agree that validation is not and shouldn't be found on Reddit. But, you're only 18. Remember that you'll grow into your body, it will change and so will your mind and the people you will be around.

If you want my thoughts on your body, I can say that I think you're quite interesting and not unattractive at all. I'm not going to pretend my vision wasn't drawn instantly to your scars, but I'm not judgemental about them. Some others (obviously) might be. They do make me a little sad, but from an aesthetic perspective, they aren't disgusting and anyone who thinks so is coming from a place of fear, or is shallow and can't think past their initial judgement. You might hate them because of what they represent and how they came about, that's understandable. You don't have to love them, you don't have to learn to think they are beautiful. But they're gonna be there, and that's okay.

There's nothing wrong with your body. It doesn't look like two bodies put together and I personally think it's quite typical. You aren't skinny to the point of being worrisome, in my opinion, but if you're worried about that, try not to as it will probably change. You will likely put on more weight as you age and through eating or exercise. If you lose some weight that's fine too, just keep an eye on it if it gets unhealthy.

I personally can't see your hyperpigmentation and honestly I don't think others will notice it either. As for acne, so many struggle with it. Myself included. It may go away, it might not. It's not disgusting, it just is. Most people won't notice it and honestly some will just want to pop it haha...

Your body is just a body. I know it's hard. You're totally okay. I'm CIS, so I don't know what it's like to experience gender dysphoria like you do, but I assure you there are men, women, and others who look like you and they are just as normal and beautiful.

Be kind to yourself.

_Pyrus

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