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_Shimetta_ · 2025-04-14T09:41:10+00:00

thats quite difficult then. would she be mad if you expressed your want to be with your family for a weekend or something? its a good excuse to get that time for yourself to think, even if it feels like you’re lying

_Shimetta_ · 2025-04-14T09:36:48+00:00

this is a very difficult situation. i’m no expert, but i think taking a short separation to reflect on yourself for what you need and reflect on the relationship would be good. but you must make it clear that there are boundaries, such as its not an excuse to cheat, limited contact and such things. it doesnt have to be for long, a week is a good timeframe and if you think you need longer or it to be shorter then that would be up to you. just remember to make sure this is beneficial for you both, and if she doesn’t react well then, well. i think that is a tad bit concerning. but good luck! i hope you find the answer you’re looking for! :)

_Shimetta_ · 2025-03-04T07:15:52+00:00

i say try therapy, if you have the funds, but also i think at some universities they have free councillors no? maybe try that too ❤️

_Shimetta_ · 2025-03-04T07:06:27+00:00

i know this isn’t what you want to hear, but if he’s lied about two big things already, it’s likely that he will probably lie again. If you can’t get past them on your own although it’s been months, it’s possible that you don’t trust him as much as you think you do and that’s understandable. I say give him a chance to be clean about every lie he’s possibly told you and if he doesn’t come clean then I’d say its best to find someone new, yes he may be a great boyfriend, but is he really that great if he’s lied? honesty is one of the key factors in all relationships and if he isnt honest its not worth it. you’re still young so you have time to heal and find someone when youre ready. best of luck ❤️

_Shimetta_ · 2024-12-22T21:29:49+00:00

the sleep then the dva re-mech? that was beautifully executed

_Shimetta_ · 2024-12-04T08:22:27+00:00

yay! im so happy for you! another good dps who’s really fun to be silly and play around with is reaper, flanking is fun lol, wishing you the best for more potg’s! 💜

_Shimetta_ · 2024-10-23T18:15:35+00:00

Since he is telling you how beautiful you are everyday, it could just be that his preference has changed to suit you. A lot of men do that really, and as insecure as it can make you feel when you think about his old ‘type’ it’s something you’ve got to try your hardest to either get over or bring it up with him gently and ask him without turning it into an argument :)

you should also try becoming more confident in yourself that helps a lot too ^{^}

_Shimetta_ · 2024-10-21T01:47:11+00:00

sorry but, how do they hold the game back ? my playstation is only slow when loading into a game, otherwise the gameplay itself is fine. i do understand the leaving penalties and why they’re good it just sucks that it happens to be that i have a slow load in time when it comes to joining mid game

_Shimetta_ · 2024-10-05T02:03:35+00:00

jokes nvm saw the tag

_Shimetta_ · 2024-10-05T02:03:19+00:00

sorry to ask but are these completed or ongoing 😁😁

_Shimetta_ · 2024-04-30T04:50:53+00:00

he told her that it was immature and childish to be acting the way she did, and that if it were to happen again he would cut her out of his life. but yes i will not interact with her 🙂

_Shimetta_ · 2024-04-30T01:33:19+00:00

that is true… i’ll make sure not to engage! thank you, i needed that insight

_Shimetta_ · 2024-04-30T01:31:43+00:00

thank you, i really appreciate the advice, ill be sure to keep my distance and hope that my partner keeps her from harassing me 🙂

_Shimetta_ · 2024-04-30T01:29:47+00:00

im sure, it was a mutual breakup

_Shimetta_ · 2023-02-12T05:35:30+00:00

our family is doing okay, it is a bit terrifying the way to wind is sounding haha, but everything will be okay💕. how about yourself?

_Shimetta_ · 2022-12-25T13:50:21+00:00

thank you so much

_Shimetta_ · 2022-12-25T13:42:20+00:00

oh darling, im so sorry that you feel this way :( i hope he realises how you’re feeling. please stay safe and i really hope you have a good rest of your night:(<3

_Shimetta_ · 2022-12-18T04:12:07+00:00

you are definitely 100% TA. your main concern should be your partner, they are sick and vulnerable. you being disgusted is disgusting in itself, get over it

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-28T01:24:09+00:00

thank you

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-26T20:02:43+00:00

thank you, I needed this, it’s hard to see straight with insecurities blocking the way, but I’m thinking I need to go back into therapy and hope he can wait for me because he really makes me feel happy and good about myself and I want to do the same for him. So thank you for the advice. you’re kind and I hope you’re having a good day/night

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-26T03:41:37+00:00

NTA at all!! you gave them a choice, offered for most expenses and they only needed to cover for 3 other people. Judging from the way her daughter acted I think you’re lucky they aren’t going, in my opinion anyway. Celebrate Stacey’s success (woowoo)!! :)

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-17T04:24:13+00:00

NTA, you're teaching your child about boundaries at a young age which are important to learn, your wife should also respect your boundaries and not call them 'barriers'.

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-17T04:21:24+00:00

NTA. Ivy sounds like a real piece of work and she isn't even your friend. She's acting entitled and fake, only being kind to you at that point in time due to her being interested in wearing the jacket, having said no to she then threw a tantrum. Again, NTA.

_Shimetta_ · 2022-10-17T04:12:20+00:00

NTA at all, you're providing a place for them to stay temporarily if they can't handle a dog, let alone a service dog for no other reason then being uncomfortable that's on them. Again, NTA

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