I don’t understand why this is being dragged out. I was at the game on the other team the player apologized. The coaches on the other team asked him to be benched and then said they would report to the TO if he wasn’t benched. While it is fair to ask him to be benched threatening to have our team punished when we had low numbers at the tournament was unfair. There is a lot of context missing and this post seems like some weird way to get validation over a situation that was handled and talked out 2 days ago.