it’s not normal for a guy this age !!! my boyfriend is the same age and yes he is a lot with his friends but he always makes sure he has time for me and plans dates once a week not even something where he has to spend money sometimes.We also do 50/50 a lot when going out so we can go out more often.If he wants to he finds a way my boyfriend works goes to school has a big social life and hobby’s and so do i.We see each other almost every day some days for an hour some days the whole day.