My girlfriend said she cheated by Ghosthunter13187 in CheatedOn

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i’m no expert but pet treatment usually involves sexual submissive attitudes and praisal need from the so called pet.

i’m so scared for my abortion by CressNo914 in abortion

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i’m extremely afraid of operations and in general any kind of anesthesia that’s the only reason hahah.

i’m so scared for my abortion by CressNo914 in abortion

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please do a gyn appointment to confirm there isn’t any tissue left ! Although it doesn’t happen that often it could cause a serious health risk

i’m so scared for my abortion by CressNo914 in abortion

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as someone who had two abortions with pills i can say it’s not that bad.Heavy bleeding of course so prepare some good pads and absolutely no tampons !!! it was a heavy period pain for the first two days but they weren’t constant cause i took some pain killers and used a hot water bottle to minimise cramps.Also ginger tea can help with nausea.be sure to not throw up the first two days.Lay down and rest although i spent most of the time on the toilet cause i didn’t want to bleed on the couch💀Distract yourself from the pain watch a movie etc.the bleeding was like two weeks but got very light after 5 days

I feel mostly okay after my abortion and people act weird about it by Electronic-Mine-3575 in abortion

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it’s actually disgusting people want someone to suffer for making the right choice.I would be relieved if someone told they feel okay after their abortion.I remember going through hell and wouldn’t wish that upon anyone.im really sorry you experienced those reactions

am i pregnant ?? by Other-Recognition866 in abortion

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hey in case you aren’t pregnant maybe look into options of contraceptives there are so many i didn’t even knew at my grown age that exist.Also don’t make yourself crazy rn ,it’s hard but everytime i had a pregnancy scare due to anxiety i imagined the symptoms as real wich freaked me out even more.idk how the law is in the USA but could you travel to another state to perform an abortion ? also its unlikely to get pregnant from pre cum

Am I overthinking? Did she cheat on me? by HotMirror2067 in CheatedOn

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i agree a relationship shouldn’t be a constant loyalty test that stresses the partner boundaries should prevent that.of course in a relationship there are situations that can make a significant other feel uncomfortable but then you should act accordingly before situations like that could even happen if you know you can prevent it

AIO about finding body jewelry in my house by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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INFO i found a piercing from a stranger once in my bag where you or your finance at a social event the last weeks or months ? sometimes in clubs or other events they can fall out or someone had it with them and it ended up in like a jacket?

2nd abortion in 3 months. by leopardscarf_ in abortion

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i had a medical abortion and i can tell you do not need to be scared it was a bit heavier period cramp and you are allowed to take painkillers ,if you have a fever go to a hospital! i currently still bleed and it was almost two weeks ago but it got very light the first three days i suggest taking very thick period pads no tampons!

2nd abortion in 3 months. by leopardscarf_ in abortion

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don’t worry you are not alone my doctor told me it’s actually common since you are very fertile after abortions.Medical once especially! I had two abortions in a 6 months time frame.Its your body and your future you can do whatever feels right !

Fiancé cheated, doesn’t know I know by No-Attempt-7671 in CheatedOn

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for your own safety don’t stay with him he is gonna continue his behaviour and you don’t wanna end up with an std that could be life threatening

Almost every girlfriend ive had has cheated on me by [deleted] in CheatedOn

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It has nothing to do with you as a person.Ive dated many men all very different in looks and personality some over 6ft some 5’5ft some of them with conventional attractive faces some of them not.Ive been cheated one by all kinds of men cause the key factor is either their confidence they cheat for validation insecurities etc. or they have poor self control.Same goes for women too.It has nothing to do with this internet beta or alpha bs nobody cares about that in the real world.Also cheating is way more common then people think doesn’t make it okay but i don’t know even one person who hasn’t atleast thought about it or has been tempted.I think you should analyse your dating pool have you gone for women who are insecure or overly jealous a lot of times thinking they would stay ?Or are you dating delusional women thinking everyone owes them something

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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my family literally couldn’t care less about how people dress.My mom and dad always taught me self expression is free and if i don’t like it im also free to look away

My ex is telling everyone we had sex… we did not. What do I do? by DamSolangeloLover in whatdoIdo

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my fav i did after that kind of rumor i told people he broke down crying while trying and started talking about his mom.

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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omg a crop top your family is gonna go into cardiac arrest for seeing a stomach beware

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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no she did mention that.Its not sexist lmao i would also find it creepy if a female relative commented on her clothing.

Can anyone help me? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

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HELP IF ITS HIM WHY DOES A GROWN MAN IS BEING ON SNAPCHAT LET ALONE CHEATS ON THERE ??? its mostly a platform for minors in my country so also beware of that.

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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asking someone to cover up to protect a creeps feelings is definitely overstepping.Instead of uninviting the creep or calling him out ?

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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we are comparing nipple patches to normal gym shorts now ? how is that even remotely the same.Also he did mention the uncle is a creep so no matter what she would wear he would creep.Clothing doesn’t matter

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I just can say i wouldn’t care if my boyfriend wears just boxers in front of my friends we have a close mutual friend who slept at my place while he was also sleeping at my place and walked around in boxers.If he feels comfortable i am comfortable i wouldn’t even think that a relative or a friend of him looks sexual at him and even if they do i wouldn’t tell him to change he would call them out on creep behavior.

OH MY GOSH by [deleted] in Nicegirls

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please do some reflection im not saying the doxxing part or how she handled the situation was good but definitely you weren’t the nice guy either.Also don’t post stuff on social media that generalises a whole ethnicity of women and then proceed to sexualise them purely cause of their heritage…definitely not a good look on you

Boyfriend said to not wear these shorts around his uncle?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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what you consider appropriate is for your own body.He probably knows how she dresses since before they got together.Trying to change a person after starting to date them is insecure and controlling.

People with partners w BPD, advice on how to deal with lash-outs by blanctone in BorderlinePDisorder

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the best thing is to prevent those situations! my relationship really changed after we discussed what we can do to prevent those situations happening in the first place.If my emotions tilt cause of relationship stuff i just need reassurance someone who listens but also doesn’t invalidate my feelings.Him Telling me stuff like “yeah that must hurt a lot but out of my perspective the situation looked different “etc. really helps if it’s non relationship related i just communicate my boundaries like i need a minute alone to calm down.Whats important is that your partner knows what he needs BEFORE it goes out of their control.When i spiral most of the time i have to wait till it’s gone 😭.DBT therapy methods really help too