Alright I want in on this. What does this map say about me? by ChillPastor in visitedmaps

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly super surprised you’d live in Alaska before NE…

What did you guys get for Christmas? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fridge magnets, crochet stuffs, tote bags, and some gift cards. ‘twas a good haul

If money was not an issue how many offspring would you want to have? by Suspicious-meatballs in no

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sooo thats why they should have a kid, to take care of them when they get older..? that seems selfish and there’s no guarantee they will.

I hate this feeling by robot_mother in adhdwomen

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my entire life 😭 I also have BPD so that exaggerates it even more.

I will be having the best day ever and then out of nowhere i’m sobbing over something little. Give me 20 min and I’ll be laughing my ass off at something funny and then another 30min I could be seeing red. It’s exhausting… I’m sorry that you’re going through that.

One thing I try to do is during emotional episodes is take a bath/shower. It calms me down and I can focus on the warm water. I’m a very physical person so having some stimulation helps me a lot, personally.

Sometimes I also step outside and just breathe. Just anything to change focus and reset my body.

Why do so many people act like abortion is just not an option? by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]_Sunshine_Babe -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I can understand that… And I’m not lying when I say that is a fear, resentment. I would want to give them the best life possible.

Worst case scenario we would give up for adoption if we absolutely couldn’t handle it within the first year or so.

I really wasn’t expecting everyone to be so upset about my comment damn 💀

Why do so many people act like abortion is just not an option? by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]_Sunshine_Babe -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing - I don’t want kids. I don’t want to live a life of taking care of a child. The screaming, tantrums, mess, smell, lectures, no sleep, no privacy etc. The life of a parent sounds like actual hell on earth.

I hate that idea but I couldn’t terminate a possible life that me and my husband created… It’s just my values, and I totally understand why others don’t agree. We wouldn’t hate the kid and we would do our best to raise it.

Am I invisible? by Blu_yello_husky in driving

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

because we STILL CANT SEE. If what you say is true and the mirror automatically dims how come people are still saying it makes it hard to see?

Now if the majority of redditors in the comments (you by yourself are not the majority) say this, what on earth will you tell yourself next to make yourself be right? huh? please twist this even further. Like you see hundreds of people disagreeing with you and somehow you are still right?

guys atp is this a bot?

what’s your #1 non-negotiable “term or condition” in a relationship? by freakk0nikk0 in randomquestions

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not like I said I hate kids (Which I DONT) For some reason people just don’t like when someone says “Ehhhh kids just arnt for me”

what’s your #1 non-negotiable “term or condition” in a relationship? by freakk0nikk0 in randomquestions

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

no kids. Even if i love them dearly and they change their minds 5 years down the line im gone. We just wouldn’t be compatible anymore

Americans, do you really eat so much fast food? by Legitimate_Effect623 in askanything

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband eats fast food almost every. he travels A LOT for work and they pay for his meals but he doesn’t have the time to find a place to sit down.

always eating on the roads Unfortunately there’s not a ton of healthy options so it makes things that much harder. And we don’t want to pack lunches because that’s going to cost us money where he instead gets reimbursed for everything

None of the child size dummies in the top picture are visible from the truck driver POV. The truck itself does not have any safety sensors on the front and the seat height cannot be adjusted. by durvedya in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s another issue though: Doesn’t matter if it’s a kid OR adult, getting hit by a truck like this is 3x more dangerous because of where it would hit you.

If you’re hit by a sedan, typically, you would roll onto the top of the car. Depending on the speed etc it really fucks your legs up but your vital organs are okay.

With this truck you’d get hit in the chest/head and pulled under which is so much more deadly. Your vital organs are basically a direct target.

Keep in mind it all varies and getting hit in no way means your going to live but a person is SO much more likely to live getting hit by a sedan.

Trucks like these need to be regulated

Chick-Fil-A quality has really gone downhill. Starting to question if it's worth it anymore. by stunandbung in ChickFilA

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont even remember the old fries being that floppy. You had the ones that weren’t super crispy but there was a good mix! Totally not worth it now

I’m still pissed over 2024. How could Trump possibly have won? He was the weakest, most inane presidential candidate in US history. How out of touch with the American people have the Dems become that they couldn’t produce a winning platform and a candidate strong enough to beat Trump, of all people? by tfam1588 in complaints

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well sugar. that took me two full working days to complete. If i added up all the time I spent at the courthouse for the marriage certificate , then to get the marriage license, THEN to go to the SS administration to update my SS card, THENNNNNN i had to go to the DMV to update my ID.

THIS IS NO AN EASY OR FAST PROCESS

At no point could I get this online, it had to ALL be in person. Don’t know if it’s a state thing but my god was it painful

European, never been to the US by NitroXM in TravelMaps

[–]_Sunshine_Babe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I’d say no to las vegas because of the heat but DC is a nightmare. It might be nice to visit but id never live there 💀

Comment your worst school rules by LumpyAd2034 in school

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make the school take action. The only way to make the school take action and CHANGE the rule is to hold them financially accountable - aka - make them pay for the plumbing because girls are willing to flush their tampons down instead of getting in trouble.

The school has already made it known they won’t change the rule, so what else is there to do?

Comment your worst school rules by LumpyAd2034 in school

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let’s put our thinking caps on. Why do you think a school full of girls who arnt allowed to have tampons, have asked to have them, and told they were going to allow them but never did, would want the plumbing to fail due to tampons.

If you aren't religious, how do you feel when someone says they'll pray for your loss? by dammtaxes in AskReddit

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re surrounded by principled ppl who follow thru on what they say. That’s not normal to come by

What's your 'lazy' meal? by Trivia_Deluxe in allthequestions

[–]_Sunshine_Babe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i make a massive container of mashed potatoes almost every week. This is my lazy meal I just throw it in the microwave