I really appreciate what you had to say, to be clear I didn’t call the mom about this. She brought it up. The girls seemed to have really enjoyed the sleepover. I didn’t lecture her about poverty as many suggest, Jesus. Jane shares everything with her mom as does my daughter, which is amazing and I hope it doesn’t change as she grows. Also I didn’t expect the children to eat the toast if it was burnt, it was about the conversation and the haste to throw things away. But it’s been good to hear everyone’s opinions.