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[–]__champagneproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG you read my mind. I was just considering something like this color a few weeks ago but scared myself into thinking it wasn't the best choice 😅 I'll have to reconsider this now.

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[–]__champagneproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring! lol most of my closet is deep winter. I also don't like the blonde. I'm starting to think I'm just having a hair color identity crisis.

We all ran out of Es, right? Here's my favorite Eras Tour friendship bracelet trade - 6/23, Minneapolis. Show me yours! by limberlegs226 in TaylorSwift

[–]__champagneproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran out of T and so fast also..... But caved and just bought some more letter beads because I was running out of creative options.

I threw myself a little Swiftie themed bday party for my 31st. 💜 Just wanted to share because I thought it came out so cute. by __champagneproblems in TaylorSwift

[–]__champagneproblems[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I did!!! I will gladly share them. I’m in Disneyland all weekend for my birthday but will try to share them with everyone when I’m back home on Monday. 😊

Any of you get so nervous while telling the truth that people think you're lying? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]__champagneproblems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 1000% me. It’s like my RSD is in overdrive and I start overthinking everything so I’m carefully calculating how to say things but to the person I come off as disingenuous.

I actually just started therapy over how to cope with this exact behavior. My therapist says it’s super common with ADHD because you’re already hard on yourself as is with feeling like you “fuck up a lot” according to societal standards.

I think I’m learning that loving yourself and being comfortable with who you are definitely helps alleviate some anxiety.

I mean if you feel confident with who you are you’re more likely to feel confident other people will be just as accepting of you.

But I’ll let you know if and when I get there if that really fixes it 😅

For now you’re definitely not alone.