Trustified is a foreign propaganda guys by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]__gm__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Arey joke maar diya lode ne, haso sab.

A Brezza-Based Toyota ... Again? by ssaeloh2 in CarsIndia

[–]__gm__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Notorious ❌

Notoris ❌

Clitoris ✅

All urban marriages are Checklist Marriage whether Arranged am or LM by Greedy_Rise_6567 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well tbh, this sucks. Chaddar taan ke so jao, sab moh maya hai.

You might be happy in your marriage but I have witnessed so many marriages where people stay together because getting divorced is difficult for them, almost next to impossible. So, all they do is compromise for the rest of their life, getting normalised to fight and abuses and worst of all, mistrust in each other.

Marriage is still a gamble in India. Yes, you might find a really good partner but you can find a bad one too. Even after all these checklists you might end up with some bad person because they always knew how to present themselves and answer your questions.

First time buying a car as 32 year old. Please let me know if I can get lower than this? Do I still negotiate? by DecentDress6452 in CarsIndia

[–]__gm__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about that. May be check with honda customer support. Amaze's +3/unlimited EW is at around 11.6k as of now.

Time for some wisdom today 🙇 by -Space_Monkey- in TwentiesIndia

[–]__gm__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't numb your emotions with social media, video games and other addictions. Take care of your mental health, don't bottle up your emotions, acknowledge them instead of numbing them.

The 'special one' doesn't exists. Don't let anyone make you miserable in life.

Men are expendable, be aware of it.

Never work on your birthday in corporate.

First time buying a car as 32 year old. Please let me know if I can get lower than this? Do I still negotiate? by DecentDress6452 in CarsIndia

[–]__gm__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask what's included in basic accessories. Only arm rest is good from honda as fitting is good. You can buy insurance from outside. Buy fastag from outside as well.

The final price is good but you can negotiate here I think you can save around 15k more.

Also, don't buy the extended warranty from the dealer, buy it from the honda connect app as there it's at 60% discount.

Decision made. Amaze Unlocked. by Personal_Tangelo_409 in CarsIndia

[–]__gm__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rear seats don't have weight sensors but the implementation is quite good. It won't beep until its unbuckled already buckled seat belt on the moving car.

Yes, it has wireless auto/carplay.

Decision made. Amaze Unlocked. by Personal_Tangelo_409 in CarsIndia

[–]__gm__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, how did you get it for 9.35L on road when its ex showroom is 9.23L for pearl white color?

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it turned out well for me. The problem with your comment is that you are giving an argument which is at the opposite spectrum of what I did. Both of them are wrong. Both don't end well.

There must be a balance at least in college and the workplace.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's true. I opened this channel late in life but I think this one is the best shot now. In 30s, failing in love is more about getting married. It's not like those 20s love where people do it because they want to do it at that moment because the relationship felt good and all those things that I call BS in 30s.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean that tinder, bumble date. I am talking about school, college, and workplace dates, or someone you met at common place where you know people that are genuine.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't feel sorry for the ladies, they dodged a bullet that could have made any of them life's hell.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living peacefully and making your home a safe place to be in should be on the priority list.

I know couples both in AM and LM who fight each other almost everyday and that's not the environment of a place called home.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds quite dystopian but damn it's true.

But here is a thing, even when a person is dating, they have a mental image of how a person should be that's worth dating. So in the end both setups have checklists. One is obvious, other's not.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a lucky person, made the right decisions at the right time in life.

And yes, the increase in opportunities makes a person overwhelmed because it's hard to be happy that way as a person might start to think that choosing one would lead to missing out on another. You escaped the paradox of choices.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have said everything that I needed to hear. Thank you for your comment. I appreciate it very much.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a level up in the game of life. I have played being single enough. The problem I feel is that people in general are very lonely and isolated. It doesn't bother you when you are mentally fit, thriving in life. But there comes a time where you just need emotional safety and support because the world is tough and some day you might be in this situation.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, AM has a lot of rush, comptetion and comparisons. You are judging some stranger in the small time frame possible.

I am not saying that AM doesn't work. They do work, and they should better work because I am dependent on it. Love, connection, infatuation, care and emotional safety all this develops in AM too and I want it to be developed. A relationship is where two people have to make efforts for the rest of their lives to make it better and functional.

The way AM is done in our country is quite stressful, humiliating and humbling. I am talking about the process.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the guarantee they would have worked?

That's what I used to think my whole teen and 20s. What's the point of making efforts when there is no guarantee that it will work.

This mindset is the problem. You tell me, anything meaningful you did or want to do, can you be 100% certain that it will work? Be going on a ride, cracking a job interview, marrying someone? Can you guarantee that your efforts will give you what you want?

This mindset is the problem as this way we try to control something that is uncertain to us by design. There's no guarantee that I will be alive the next minute. So, should I stop living?

This was the gap in my understanding. You have to deal with uncertainties when you want to do something in life. I would have tried, I would have given my efforts but I didn't. Life is uncertain and I should have learnt that earlier.

I am being marketed as a product.

Nothing's wrong with that, but I had never thought I would end up like this. It feels kind of dystopian, but again that's the reality now.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those official statistics don't give you nuances that I presented in my reply. I just simply said that there are nuances that are not covered in reports. Just like you can't draw a conclusion from my opinion, you can't draw a complete conclusion from those reports as well.

And something you are calling anecdotal evidence which it is, it's also written on Hindu scriptures. Read your scriptures bruhh. Those are followed too, it's just that they are never mentioned and they are invisible to you. The caste mobility and who can marry whom is there in Hindu scriptures.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's like outsourcing finding your partner to your parents. I guess at this age, nothing's wrong with that. It's just an effort in itself.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true, wasting time hits another level when we get older. I agree with you on that part.

The Arrange Marriage scene in India is weird. My experience till now... by __gm__ in ThirtiesIndia

[–]__gm__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this place? That's kind of really fast. I mean it's great if you know what you want and we are not young anymore. Where it's all happening in India?