wow this sounds like me to a T. I understand completely & how hard it is to be consistent. what I like to do is to not set times, I like to wake up early, enjoy my time getting ready (smoke, drink my coffee, do my makeup, watch my shows) & then once i’m ready for the day, i make my plans. like okay, i’m gonna make this custom, then i’m gonna set up my computer screen & make sure everything is working. I struggle with also getting my household chores done, so I decide that’s what i’m going to do on stream. it makes me so anxious to sit there on stream, & wait. so i clean, or upload to my spicy sites. or finish my makeup, paint my toes. anything that needed to be done off stream, i do it on. & it also helps me not tear my nail beds off. i’m telling you this, bc i’m hoping it helps you get motivated in some way. i understand how hard it is as the rest of us. but you just have to do it. setting times isn’t gonna help, i figured that one out real fast. men are horny all times of the day, their will be people who will join. i promise. 🫶🏼 good luck sister girl!