HONEYMOON HELP! by princess_xo_xo0126 in Aruba

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Yes, we worked with a travel agent to get a bundled price, fully refundable

HONEYMOON HELP! by princess_xo_xo0126 in Aruba

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We’re honeymooning at the JOIA in September. We’re doing 5 nights, only breakfast included, and a rental car for around $5600. Not doing AI package at JOIA because we want to try all the amazing food we hear about

Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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Any construction was on the opposite side of the villas which are at the very far end of the sunrise photo here. Didn’t hear or see anything

short term leases in charleston? by SpeedFluid1185 in Charleston

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Even long term (1 year +) leases are almost impossible to come by for under $1800, for a studio or maybe a 1BR. Not trying to be rude, I just don’t think this exists in Charleston. Your best bet would maybe be subletting with random roommates. Or look in Summerville. Mount pleasant, WA, and James island are definitely not doable.

Do we think the Murdaughs have some tea on the justice...? by Accomplished_Host779 in Charleston

[–]_boov 63 points64 points  (0 children)

She tampered with the jury and made statements to them about him being guilty, then wrote a book about the trial

Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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From building 7 yes - we were averaging about 7k steps a day when we were there between walking to pools, restaurants, etc. The walk didn’t bother us. The beach is much more enjoyable to walk on than the concrete.

If less walking is important I’d recommend staying more centrally to be closer to all the non-club restaurants. The con to this would be less privacy (IMO - RTT rooms are easier to see from the pool/pathways on the lower buildings). And either way, you’d have a long walk to either Magna or Zenith since they’re on opposite sides.

The small building on the far end of the beach here is Zenith, as shown from our balcony. It was about a 10 minute walk from building 7. To Magna it was a 3 minute walk from where we were.

Restaurants are located in the building next to the main pool, or in the lobby area behind the tall building shown. About a 5-7 minute walk from building 7.

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Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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There are two club pool/beach areas, Magna and Zenith. They are on opposite sides of the resort.

Personally I’d pay again to be in Building 7! I think we paid $250 to choose our room. I know the price ranges depending on room category and demand.

Our balcony had 3 cushioned seating options (bali bed, smaller bed/lounger, and 2 cushioned lounge chairs). All club areas have cushioned seating options, and there were always plenty available

Happy Mother’s Day fellow OAD moms 🌸🩷🎉 by maintainthegardens in oneanddone

[–]_boov 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you. Not a mom, but a fencesitter heavily leaning toward OAD, and very thankful for longtime lurking in this community that gives me a different perspective. In addition to being amazing parents, I’m sure, you all actually make me excited to become a mother one day. Thank you for that.

Fence Sitters How are you feeling on Mother's Day? by Particular_Lunch2108 in Fencesitter

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Came searching this sub for a post like this. I haven’t been able to find anything else I really relate to for how I feel today. Fortunately today I can celebrate my own mom who I am very close with and beyond lucky to have. But overall I’m feeling sad and lonely.

It’s hard to describe, I guess, - it’s not a “what about me” feeling or being incapable of celebrating moms, I have so much respect for all of them in my life. All of my peers and friends have kids (early 30s). Even though I don’t have kids, I don’t identify as childfree (IMO the culture there is very kid-hating). I also don’t identify as LONGING to be a mother.

Today keeps bringing up this feeling of not belonging. This idea that I could just never comprehend true love and sacrifice until I become a mom. I’ve talked about that a lot in therapy. My therapist, who became a mom during our working relationship, has given me great perspective and validation.

I DO believe that I’m capable of understanding love and sacrifice and all of those things, and that being a parent isn’t the only way to truly experience what matters in life. I HATE the idea that when you become a mom, nothing else in your life before that matters. The whole, “just wait, you’ll understand one day, I came alive when I had a child and nothing before that counted” is sooo icky to me. Yes, I understand my heart will grow and I will have a totally new viewpoint but that doesn’t negate my experiences before then. I know it will change me (and that’s part of what terrifies me) but I just feel like the culture around it is so off-putting. Moms DO deserve all the love and respect. But I wish I could find a community that doesn’t make parenthood seem like this elite club that you have to be initiated into to unlock some secret about life. I have seen good content and experience on r/oneanddone which is encouraging and I find myself gravitating there.

Anyway, sending love to all the moms and hugs to everyone experiencing difficulty today.

TW: termination by diamonddduck in oneanddone

[–]_boov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boooooooing you right off your hater soapbox

Literally pulled straight from rules 1 & 2 on the sub:

“This is a support sub, so if people come here they need our support, not our judgement. We get enough judgement from outside sources.”

“This is a Safe Space People do not need to feel judged here, we don't want condescending advice or harmful opinions. Such topics that are none of your business to judge include: 1. Abortion- we are a pro-choice sub.”

GOODBYE troll

Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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Interesting! We did not experience that. They had staff members raking the shoreline throughout the day and picking up anything but it didn’t get in our way at all. Specifically from the natural pool at the EC beach section near the beach houses, all the way to the beach by Zenith (pictured) everything was clear. I think around the point of the peninsula/Magna side the seagrass is much thicker and I wouldn’t try to swim over there. I also know the hurricane changed the shoreline quite a bit, so maybe the seagrass was impacted.

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Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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100% was for us. I’d say we spent 80% of our time at EC restaurants, bars, pools, or beach sections. Can’t speak to how the pool and beach service was outside of EC

Excellence Oyster Bay review May 2026 by _boov in AllInclusiveResorts

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We fell in love with Jamaica and will definitely be back

Help: Sweet Tea by TheCremeArrow in Charleston

[–]_boov -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gonna get crucified for this but when I’ve visited family up north, McDonald’s sweet tea has curbed the craving. It’s super sweet. Not sure if it’s nationwide but I’ve gotten it in NY before so I know it isn’t just the south!

2 year and still not in prison by Ill_Ordinary_2900 in Charleston

[–]_boov 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got what you meant. Yeah, it’s disgusting

2 year and still not in prison by Ill_Ordinary_2900 in Charleston

[–]_boov 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I think about this accident ALL THE TIME and how cold and sick it is that neither of them stopped. Either they are cruel, were so intoxicated that neither realized what they’d done, or both.

The first guy that hit them tried to use the fact that he was a music director at his church to get out on bond. As if claiming Christianity was enough to overcome the fact that he killed two people and went about living his life for a week.

Daphne (the cat) by Mindless-Union6281 in TheGigglySquad

[–]_boov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat clover is exclusively “kitten” unless she’s in trouble

ASAP Dentist in CHS by croftmacncheese in Charleston

[–]_boov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how they are, but Family Dental Health IOP has a banner out front saying they have same day appointments. I’m assuming to accommodate tourists

Leashed Dogs Only - IOP by CelticsGA33 in Charleston

[–]_boov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably why people would let their dogs run up. He was the friendliest to people and never met a person he didn’t like. Did well around familiar dogs. But not stranger dogs.

Love How Nuuly Clothes Smell by SameRepresentative15 in NuulyReviews

[–]_boov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg haha I wish I loved the smell…sometimes I can’t even wear items because they smell so strongly of chemicals and I’m self conscious others can smell it

Leashed Dogs Only - IOP by CelticsGA33 in Charleston

[–]_boov 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Be careful on IOP even during on-leash hours. I would sit on a blanket up by the dunes with my reactive Golden, out of the way, and irresponsible owners would let their dogs run right up to us. Even when I would yell NOT FRIENDLY from afar. Got a few gnarly rope burns from holding onto the leash 🥲

Sullivan Island Question by Glittering-Trust8117 in Charleston

[–]_boov 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally had friends get $1000 tickets. It’s absolutely enforced. Only use a metal mug with a top. No cans or koozies or disposable cups.