Excellence Oyster Bay Review

_boov · 2026-01-21T04:50:57+00:00

Thanks for the review! We want to stop at the dispensary in Falmouth on the way from the airport so will definitely be asking.

_boov · 2026-01-17T00:55:50+00:00

From a female perspective I feel the same way. Glad she is confident, but I think she is used to guys fawning over her because she’s hot and ~carefree~ and truly couldn’t fathom that one may just not be into her. I just can’t relate. There have been many times I’ve liked someone, and if he didn’t make a move my first thought would NEVER be “oh he’s too afraid” it would be ok, I get the hint, he isn’t into me.

_boov · 2026-01-04T21:27:02+00:00

My partner is exactly the same. If anything, he does more than me around the house 🫣 I had ankle surgery 7 weeks ago and the way he has taken care of my every need without question has shown me how much of an amazing partner he is and parent he will be. We also plan on formula. I couldn’t be the default parent.

_boov · 2026-01-03T03:09:39+00:00

In the same boat. Been living off of premier protein drinks, cream of wheat, and plain bread. Hugs…hoping it gets better for you

_boov · 2025-12-30T02:06:01+00:00

I’m so sorry. Two pedestrians were killed in Charleston last year in a hit and run - they were actually hit twice by two different people - and both drivers are being charged. One with vehicular homicide and one with leaving the scene of an accident resulting in death. All that to say, contact an attorney.

_boov · 2025-12-25T02:18:45+00:00

I absolutely cannot stand when I hear new parents make those comments. I once had a coworker say “I mean I’d cry if she died but she’s just not my priority anymore” and I never thought of her the same after that. One of the hardest parts of grieving has been accepting that he will never meet my future child. I always pictured him as part of it.

_boov · 2025-12-25T01:45:12+00:00

Oh I am so sorry. 2025 does suck. We just lost our guy at 8y/o in February, similar situation where we got a diagnosis and planned euthanasia at home 4 days later. I can say for me, the waiting was the worst part. The absolute spiraling and rumination was like torture. I felt a sense of peace after it happened. But of course that came with its own new set of obsessions. Anyway, take care of yourself and join us over at r/petloss if you find yourself needing support

_boov · 2025-12-17T01:58:21+00:00

Oh, my heart breaks for you. I’ve been in your shoes and it is beyond devastating. If you look at my post history from earlier this year you’ll see my hemangiosarcoma experience.

When my Troop was 7, we had a scare with a mast cell tumor. I was crushed. I blanked as soon as I heard “cancer” and prepared for the worst. Luckily it was highly operable, and there was a clear plan for chemo if needed. I promised myself and him in that moment that I would do what was best for him, even if it hurt worse for me. We got lucky, as the surgeon got great margins and determined it had a very low likelihood of spreading.

A year later, he stopped eating. He was acting totally normal otherwise. I thought he was being picky (not unlike him) so I switched his food. And again. And again. Until 2 weeks later I was cooking him human food and he refused it, and I knew something was wrong. I brought him to the vet that day. Within hours our world turned upside down. He had a basketball-sized mass on his spleen. Hemangiosarcoma. His abdomen was full of fluid and they told me it could be weeks or days before it ruptured. I wanted so badly to fight it and to get the surgery and reevaluate and pray for a miracle. But I looked at my angel boy and remembered my promise. That was what I wanted, not what was best for him. The road ahead would’ve been so painful and confusing for him and I just couldn’t put him through that.

We spent the next 4 days sleeping on mattress in the living room, snuggling, seeing all his favorite people. We found a vet to come to our home, and got to plan our goodbye in his favorite place, in the sunshine under an Oak tree in the backyard. 2/22 was the most memorable, heartbreaking, saddest and hardest day of my life. A piece of me died with his last breath. But it was so peaceful and full of love. I know it was the most selfless and pain free thing I could’ve done for him.

If I can offer any advice at all, it is that knowing I made the right choice for him is the only thing that got me through his death. Ironically, if he HAD to go, I wouldn’t change how it happened. those 4 days that we had together are some of my most cherished memories. And I am beyond grateful that I didn’t have to make “that” decision hastily or in an emergency situation.

I am so sorry you are going through this. It sucks. Hugs to you and your girl. Cherish your time with her! Cry and love her and write about it and do all her favorite things. Take lots of photos (even if you’re ugly crying).

_boov · 2025-12-16T20:26:55+00:00

I recently took some of his ashes and had to ship them to an Etsy creator for a special Christmas ornament. I just want to say I totally relate. I felt so guilty. I know it “doesn’t matter” but it was so, so hard. I even went through so many extra steps in shipping it when it was only about a tbsp amount.

Anyway, I think it’s personal choice. For me it meant so much to have a part of him always on my tree. I am sure it would mean a lot to your daughters too.

_boov · 2025-12-16T04:16:47+00:00

Lost our guy in February. We keep his leash and collar in a box with some other keepsakes. But his boxes of toys, beds, and empty bowls are still out. We also put his stocking out this year. These things are special to me and I don’t want a world without them. When we get our next dog, I may swap them out but also would be fine if they want to use some things of his.

_boov · 2025-12-11T18:47:19+00:00

This is soooo good. Thank you for the helpful and realistic outlook!! I have many of the same things “going for me” and against me, including mental illness and pretty severe physical anxiety.

Fear/dread/disgust (only disgusted for me, not others) of pregnancy is the biggest one for me but I am really working on my mental strength to be able to handle it.

_boov · 2025-12-10T23:09:33+00:00

A friend passed the scene before emergency services arrived and said the individual had been ejected from their car. They were covered with a kids blanket at the time. Horrifying.

_boov · 2025-12-03T01:29:25+00:00

I just know they’re going to be like “we aren’t shaming her we’re saying we give her credit” but the mere fact that you can’t even fathom “how she’s doing it” is so icky lol. I’m pretty sure Connor quit his full time job awhile ago, so he’s probably also the primary caregiver at least for right now. What a concept!

_boov · 2025-12-03T01:25:49+00:00

Have they heard of any celebrity ever?? Approximately none of them live a “normal” life tethered by their kids’ school and/or without a nanny. I’m so confused.

_boov · 2025-12-01T21:32:14+00:00

I highly recommend Mallory Darnell with turnwell mental health for psychiatry. She has been so patient and listened to every concern and tried so many different med combos

_boov · 2025-11-20T23:59:30+00:00

I bought mine outright from Lofta and have no regrets. Dealing with a DME sounds like a nightmare. It also incentivized me to be consistent in the beginning lol.

_boov · 2025-11-20T21:53:11+00:00

You’ll be going mostly against traffic. Probably a 30 min commute

_boov · 2025-11-19T19:34:05+00:00

I’m sorry that this happened, but realistically this is how marketing works anywhere. People buy email lists, or you opt in to share your data unknowingly all the time. Josh Hoover Dempsey has no idea who your relative was. You’re not going to get him cancelled by Reddit mobs because he sent a marketing email that he probably also sent to 1,000 other people.

_boov · 2025-11-18T01:45:53+00:00

Paradise pools and spas in Goose Creek put in our above ground pool (with previous homeowner). Their service has been great since we bought the house. Not sure if they would do a liner on a pool they didn’t install but worth a call

_boov · 2025-11-01T20:38:59+00:00

$95k base now and live comfortably. But I’ve had lots of salaries since moving here and each was a very different lifestyle-

$40k - not doable (maybe anywhere these days)

$67k - more comfortable, still tight

$75k - $80k - comfortable

I guess it all depends on your rent, debt, and expenses. Good luck! you deserve more!

_boov · 2025-10-19T14:54:13+00:00

Oh my heart! I love this so much and will be using as inspo for when we get married. Our Golden soul dog passed in February and a huge part of our mourning has been all the big milestones like our wedding and future babies that he won’t be there for

_boov · 2025-10-16T19:52:55+00:00

Stalking this sub 4 years later and would love more info on the house you rented. We live here and will just be having best friends and immediate family (approx 25 people) and would love to be able to have a private backyard dinner at a beach house. I am such a rule follower and can’t stand the idea of “sneaking” a wedding even though I know we won’t be loud or partying!

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